Am I responsible for my parent's debt?
My 72-year-old father has Alzheimer's. I've recently discovered that he's behind on his bills and has run up several thousand dollars of debt on his credit cards. He has few assets in his name. Am I responsible for his debt?
In a word: No.
You're only responsible for your parent's debt if your name is on the account in question as a joint account holder, not just as an authorized user of the account. If you haven't already co-signed any accounts with him, make sure you don't.
Even if you hold a power of attorney appointing you as your father's designated decision-maker, you're still not responsible for his debts unless you're found to have illegally commingled money from his accounts and yours.
The bottom line is that your father's debt isn't technically your problem, but there are steps you can take to help him resolve his situation without ruining your own credit or taking on his debt yourself.
If he owns his own home and doesn't have a large mortgage, he may be a good candidate for a reverse mortgage, which can eliminate his monthly payment and give him some breathing room to pay off debts and deal with other expenses.
If his debts are unmanageable and a reverse mortgage isn't an option -- if he's already living in a nursing home or other managed care facility, for example -- it may be time to consider filing for bankruptcy protection. Bankruptcy may be particularly appropriate if there's nothing left in the estate to protect and you want to keep creditors from hounding your father day and night.
Before filing for Bankruptcy or trying Reverse Mortgages, you should look into a Settlement with the Credit Card companies. They could work out with you and reduce the debt to a lesser amount or work out a reasonable payment plan.