8 Creative Ways to Pay for In-Home Care

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It's no fun to lie awake worrying all the time. But if you have elderly parents or other family members living alone, that's what you do, especially as time goes on and you know they aren't fully able to take care of themselves anymore. Your first thought may be of a nursing home or assisted living, but many seniors feel strongly about staying in their homes and aging in place. If that's the case, your next call is to an in-home care agency -- but first you probably want to figure out how to pay for it.

How Much Does In-Home Care Cost?

That depends on where you live. In general, pay rates in urban areas are higher than in rural communities, and still higher on the east and west coasts than in the central United States. Costs also depend on whether you're looking for homemaker services -- defined as "hands-off" care, such as cooking, cleaning, running errands, and general companionship -- or home health aide services, which include personal care, such as bathing and dressing.

A comprehensive 50-state survey of care costs by MetLife found that as of 2011, average hourly rates for home health aides ranged from $16 to $29 across the country, while rates for homemaker aides without medical training ranged from $13 to $24. These rates do not seem to be changing much over time. According to Genworth's 2012 data analysis, the median rate for in-home care of $18 to $19 an hour nationwide is rising by only 1.15 percent every five years.

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But either way, the costs add up, particularly as most people eventually need care and companionship at least a few days a week, if not full-time. Before you panic, consider that many, many families across the country are finding a way to do this. And they're not just rich families, but also those who are struggling to make ends meet.

How a Reverse Mortgage Can Help You Pay for In-Home Care

Reverse mortgages were developed by the government specifically for the purpose of helping seniors (originally widows) stay in their homes until the end of their lives.

With a reverse mortgage, seniors can use the value of the equity in their home to get cash now, either all at once or in monthly payments. But instead of borrowing a set sum, the loan balance increases over time. A reverse mortgage allows your loved one to stay in the home until she dies, even if by that time the loan balance exceeds the home's worth. But at that point, the home must be sold to repay the loan balance.

Reverse mortgages do have limitations: Your loved one has to be 62 or older, and she has to own her home, either outright or with little debt left on the original loan. (The bank that holds the original loan must be paid back before payments are made on the reverse mortgage.) The bank decides on a value based on the home's worth and also based on your loved one's age, since that affects the length of time the payouts must cover.

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While a reverse mortgage may be the perfect solution to your in-home care dilemma, it also comes with strict rules regarding homeowners' insurance, mortgage insurance, and home maintenance, making it easy to default. Choose a reputable mortgage broker or bank and read the entire contract carefully. (According to the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, reverse mortgage scams and foreclosures are on the rise, often because of high fees or clauses that make it easy to lose the home.)

Veterans Benefits Can Help You Pay for In-Home Care

If your senior loved one was a veteran, you may be in luck when it comes to financial assistance -- but you'll have to be assertive and persistent to get it. Veterans who served more than 90 days of active duty, with at least one day during a wartime period, with an honorable discharge, may be eligible for the Veterans Pension. Veterans who need long-term help with the activities of daily living -- or whose spouses need such help -- may be entitled to monthly disability payments known as "aid and attendance" by the VA.

This type of veterans benefit requires documentation from a doctor and is calculated using a complex rating system based on how disabled your loved one is. Many people become daunted by the complexity of the qualification process, but once veterans benefits are established they can be extensive and continue until the end of life. According to the Senior Veterans Service Alliance, only 5.4 percent of veterans who are eligible for these benefits actually receive them, because so few veterans know about the benefits and how to qualify. Help is available from Veterans Service Organizations (VSOs), a list of which is available in a PDF that can be downloaded from the Department of Veterans Affairs website. Legally, VSOs are not allowed to charge for help with veterans benefits applications. If a service requests payment for this help, look for another organization. If you're having trouble finding a VSO, there are financial concierge services that can help. Elderlife Financial is one such service with a network of VSOs.

How Life Insurance Can Help You Pay for In-Home Care

If your loved one has a life insurance policy that's no longer needed to provide for others, you family may want to tap into that money now, using accelerated or living benefits. The way this works is that your loved one sells the policy back to the issuing agency for 50 to 75 percent of its face value, an amount determined based on the amount of the policy, the monthly premiums, and the policy holder's age and health.

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There may be restrictions; some policies can only be cashed in if the policyholder is terminally ill. But many are quite flexible. And if yours isn't, there are settlement companies that will buy the policy -- also at 50 to 75 percent of face value -- then pay the premiums until the policyholder's death, when the company will collect the benefits.

If the company that issued the policy won't cash it in, don't worry. Your loved one may be able to sell the policy for a "life settlement" or "senior settlement." In this case the settlement company pays the premiums until the policyholder dies, then receives the benefits that would originally have gone to the policy's original beneficiaries.

How to Use Long-Term Care Insurance to Pay for In-Home Care

This seems like a no-brainer, but unfortunately it's not. Some long-term care insurance policies pay for in-home care, but many cover only nursing home care. And some policies that do cover in-home care require that the home health care agency be certified and that your loved one's health needs be serious enough to require a nurse practitioner or home nursing aide.

If your loved one is lucky and her policy is one of the more flexible ones, then it should designate a certain amount per day for home care to be spent on the type of aide you choose.

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One more thing: It may be too late for your aging loved ones to purchase a long-term care insurance policy, but you might want to consider this option for yourself.

How to Use an Annuity to Pay for In-Home Care

Annuities are designed to help seniors turn retirement savings or a pension into a steady, guaranteed income stream that pays out until death or for a set number of years. The money can be used to pay for in-home care or, eventually, for assisted living if necessary. An annuity is like a cross between an investment fund and an insurance policy; the money is invested at a fixed or variable interest rate, and then, after an agreed-upon maturation date, you can begin making withdrawals.

Annuities have become controversial because of unscrupulous representatives who take advantage of vulnerable seniors. So help your loved one find a reputable financial institution and representative to consult regarding an annuity purchase.

Another benefit of an annuity is that the sum invested isn't considered an asset when applying for Medicaid. The government counts the income paid out from the annuity, but not the amount originally invested.

How to Use Medicare to Pay for In-Home Care

It's not easy to get Medicare coverage for in-home care, and when you do it's strictly limited. That said, it can be a godsend when you're faced with a sudden medical crisis or downturn in your loved one's condition. Medicare coverage is most common when your loved one is being discharged from the hospital or a rehabilitation facility. You'll contract through a Medicare-certified agency for a period of skilled nursing care and therapy that's tied to a certain period of expected recovery.

The good news is that Medicare coverage is easier to get than it used to be, and sometime in 2013 it should become easier still. Thanks to the settlement of a lawsuit, Medicare coverage for skilled nursing care and occupational and rehabilitative therapy -- either at home or in a nursing home -- can't be limited by whether or not the patient's condition is improving. Prior to the lawsuit, Medicare criteria would cover treatment only if the patient's condition showed improvement, which meant that people with chronic conditions like COPD, heart failure, Parkinson's, and Alzheimer's lost coverage after a certain period of time.

Look in our directory of government insurance counselors to find a counselor in your area who can help you with Medicare eligibility.

How to Use Medicaid to Pay for In-Home Care

If your loved one's income is low and she has very little in the way of savings or other financial resources, she may qualify for Medicaid-covered in-home care, at least on a limited basis. Medicaid rules vary state by state, but all programs cover short-term in-home care for acute conditions.

Longer-term care for chronic conditions is covered for those who are ill or incapacitated enough that they would otherwise require nursing home care. These programs are known as Home and Community-Based Services (HCBS) "waiver" programs, because they're funded by Medicaid through waivers of normal Medicaid rules. For help finding out more about government assistance, call your local Area Agency on Aging.

There's also a relatively new government program, known in some areas as PACE and in others as LIFE, for seniors who qualify for both Medicare and Medicaid. These programs, which right now are only available in some areas, use community organizations to coordinate all-inclusive long-term care by an interdisciplinary team of medical and social service caregivers. Search now to find out if there's a PACE or LIFE program near you.

Warning: It would be a mistake to try to qualify for Medicaid by hiding money and other assets by "gifting" them to adult children or other family members. The government is extremely strict about Medicaid qualification and will do a "look-back," examining your financial transactions over the past five years. Any gifts of money or assets made during this time are counted as assets, and the penalties if you're caught are very steep.

How to Use a Collective Sibling Agreement to Pay for In-Home Care

If you're worried about Mom or Dad living alone, other family members may be worried, too. Working together, families can come up with a plan in which those who can't help out because of geography or work demands pay siblings who do have that availability and flexibility to be with their parents on a daily basis.

In another strategy, siblings who have available funds can pay an in-home caregiver or agency now with the understanding that they'll be paid back for their contribution from the siblings' collective inheritance or the proceeds of the house after the parents' death.

Either of these agreements needs to be spelled out very clearly to avoid tension, resentment, or dissension down the line. If a sibling acts as caregiver, she should have a set hourly wage and should keep close track of hours and any expenses incurred, such as gas or groceries, just as an employee would do. If a sibling pays for in-home care with the expectation of reimbursement, she should keep clear records in the form of invoices and receipts or canceled checks. It's also a good idea to have something in writing to show the executor of the will, or even to put a clause in the will explaining the plan.

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10 months ago, said...

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about 1 year ago, said...

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over 1 year ago, said...

All great ideas to consider. Here are some more. First, have a family member leave their job full-time or part-time and care for a loved one. (With appropriate training and certification this person can even get paid by Medicaid for their services). Second, have your loved one move in with you. In hundreds of millions of homes around the world this is the standard. Third, have all the siblings cut their expenses by 20% and contribute to savings. 
 
 Combine multiple options. ... Show more All great ideas to consider. Here are some more. First, have a family member leave their job full-time or part-time and care for a loved one. (With appropriate training and certification this person can even get paid by Medicaid for their services). Second, have your loved one move in with you. In hundreds of millions of homes around the world this is the standard. Third, have all the siblings cut their expenses by 20% and contribute to savings. 
 
 Combine multiple options. This will get you and your family over the hump. You may need to contribute less of your savings than you think. Hide

over 1 year ago, said...

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over 1 year ago, said...

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 Thank you for posting your comment. I am sorry you did not find this article helpful. The article speaks on several avenues to seek assistance including medicare, medicaid, and veterans benefits. Also your local Area Agency on the Aging:http://www.caring.com/local/area-agency-on-aging is a good resource for seniors on a lower income. If I can assist you in locating resources, please let me know. I am happy to help. Hide

over 1 year ago, said...

For people who have money this is helpful...for those who probably have long term insurance and extra insurance and a home to offer up to the government (reverse mortgage). What about people who need meals cooked and laundry done in order to stay out of a nursing home? Thosew with money do not need advise. They have what they need. Probably including a cpa and private attorney to advise them. What about the rest .. people who need help? But don't want to give everything up and end up on... Show more For people who have money this is helpful...for those who probably have long term insurance and extra insurance and a home to offer up to the government (reverse mortgage). What about people who need meals cooked and laundry done in order to stay out of a nursing home? Thosew with money do not need advise. They have what they need. Probably including a cpa and private attorney to advise them. What about the rest .. people who need help? But don't want to give everything up and end up on welfare? For benefits to be cut like foodstamps were this past year. Who cares about that? only those missing food now. Do they have computers to complain? or advocates to speak for them? not likely...not like those WITH resources already. We need to look out for those less fortunate and help them! Hide

over 1 year ago, said...

Why doesn't medicare pay for home health care? if you cant do your own laundry or cooking you must go to a nursing home? this is crazy! Why doesn't medicare pay for home health care? if you cant do your own laundry or cooking you must go to a nursing home? this is crazy! Hide

over 1 year ago, said...

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almost 2 years ago, said...

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almost 2 years ago, said...

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about 2 years ago, said...

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over 2 years ago, said...

When my mother came to live with my family her husband had saved enough money to care for her. We sacrificed alot to keep her home with us, But thank god her husband was a smart man to know i would take care of her. Only thing is now my brother is suing me for using the money. I wish i had this site when she was with me i needed support from people going through the same things. When my mother came to live with my family her husband had saved enough money to care for her. We sacrificed alot to keep her home with us, But thank god her husband was a smart man to know i would take care of her. Only thing is now my brother is suing me for using the money. I wish i had this site when she was with me i needed support from people going through the same things. Hide

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over 2 years ago, said...

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over 2 years ago, said...

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almost 3 years ago, said...

Does anyone know if my divorced mother of my deceased father- who remarried another woman is entitled any of his Vet (WWII) or SS benefits? Thanks! Does anyone know if my divorced mother of my deceased father- who remarried another woman is entitled any of his Vet (WWII) or SS benefits? Thanks! Hide

almost 3 years ago, said...

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almost 3 years ago, said...

Does Medicare pay for a home health agency to help with showers, etc. in the home? When the Alz. patient can no longer perform person hygiene and toileting tasks. Does Medicare pay for a home health agency to help with showers, etc. in the home? When the Alz. patient can no longer perform person hygiene and toileting tasks. Hide

almost 3 years ago, said...

I agree that children are not the same as employees, however when one of the children gives up their job to take on the 24/7 caregiver responsibilities, there should be some sort of contract involved. I am the daughter-in-law, in 2011 I gave up my job to take care of my father-in-law who has dementia. My brother-in-law & his wife wanted to put Pops in a nursing home. My husband and I agreed that isn't how we were raised, and besides their dad wasn't bad enough to warrant being put in a... Show more I agree that children are not the same as employees, however when one of the children gives up their job to take on the 24/7 caregiver responsibilities, there should be some sort of contract involved. I am the daughter-in-law, in 2011 I gave up my job to take care of my father-in-law who has dementia. My brother-in-law & his wife wanted to put Pops in a nursing home. My husband and I agreed that isn't how we were raised, and besides their dad wasn't bad enough to warrant being put in a nursing home. My husband and his brother agreed between them that I would be "compensated" the same amount I was earning as a part time teacher at my previous job, $200. a week. It took them nearly a year to start paying my $800. a month for the 24/7 care that I provide their father. During this time we have two daughters with their own health problems that I have also run back and forth to doctors & physical therapy. My children help where ever they can and always ask me what they can do to help. My husband & his brother in the meantime have become extremely 'stingy' with their fathers money (and believe me, Pops is not poor) and they know they are saving anywhere from 2K upwards to 6K a month by my taking care of a man who I describe as "the grandpa that every kid should have had". Brother-in-law is "too busy" to take Pops for more than a few days, about every 6 months. (He's a school teacher who has off 3 months in the summer). My husband goes out of town anywhere from 2-6 times a year for anywhere from a weekend to a week at a time. I've talked to him about both his brother not helping more and about his going out of town so often - so now I get this sad look and "would you mind if I go..." look from him when he wants to get away. Why I feel guilty when I ask for even a weekend day for myself I have no idea! At this point I'm the one who looks like I'm out for something more when I tell them that they need to transfer $$ into their dad's account so I can get his meds, depends, etc...... I feel that if there was a contract written initially I would at least have something to fall back on. At this point I feel extremely used and totally unappreciated. Unless you call grocery store flowers once in a blue moon appreciated. I will not answer the telephone when my brother-in-law calls - I don't have time for someone who doesn't have time for his own father. And as far as my husband goes, well, the saying that taking care of your parents can take a toll on a marriage is more true than one can imagine. And the sad thing is, both my husband and his brother are almost as clueless as their father in his dementia world..... .... .... Ok, I'm off my soap-box! But thank you so much, because it felt really good to vent (o: (o: (o: (I am currently in school taking online classes for Life Coaching, I'm learning to apply all this to my life... so who knows, maybe big changes are on the horizon for my hubby & his brother... (o: ) Pops has this saying "you've got to deal with the rain if you want to see the rainbows".. yeah, I love the guy! Hide