Fostering Purpose With Community

5 Ways That Senior Living Communities Can Help Older Adults Now
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"Purpose Drives Communities." I saw this recent news headline sprawl across my television.

Isn't it the other way around, I wondered? Don't communities drive purpose? Without a sense of belonging, how do you feel connected to something bigger than yourself?

These are especially important questions for seniors and the communities -- assisted living homes and adult daycare centers, to name two types -- where millions of older adults spend their later years.

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Nothing is sadder than seeing once-vital loved ones lose all interest in the world around them. In his later years, my father moved from Washington, D.C., where he was king of the hill with friends nearby, to rural Virginia, where he loved the scenery but was isolated. My siblings and I tried to keep him purposeful by engaging him in his interests, our lives, his grandkids, and visits to the nearest town. It was far from bustling, but at least it offered him contact with his local community. His mood and interest in life always picked up when he interacted with neighbors and shopkeepers.

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New Research Suggests Purpose Plays a Role in Longevity

I saw then how creating a sense of community might be the surest way to help older adults find -- or maybe rediscover is a more apt term in most cases -- purpose. According to a recently published research study in the Association for Psychological Science journal Psychological Science, having a sense of purpose may add years to your life, too.

"Evidence suggests that maintaining a purpose in life and setting overarching goals can be protective against ill health, progression of Alzheimer's disease, and even earlier mortality," says Dr. Nicholas A. Turiano (PhD), assistant professor in Life-Span Developmental Psychology at West Virginia University and coauthor of the study. "These findings seem to hold even in studies of adults well into their 80s."

While other research has suggested that having goals and a purpose may increase longevity, this is the first study to demonstrate how the benefits of having a purpose extend well into later life.

The Need for Purpose Is Ageless

We all need to make a difference, do something of value, and find meaning in our lives. That doesn't diminish with age even if our circumstances change, our social networks shrink, and our health deteriorates.

"You and I may not think about what our 'purpose' is as much as an older adult because our roles in life as mothers, fathers, employees, caregivers, etc., dictate what our purpose is," says Katie Miller, director of Resident Services for Roland Park Place, a continuing care retirement community in Baltimore, Maryland. "However, as we get older, our [conventional] life roles progressively lessen."

This puts many seniors at a crossroads. Do we find new roles and communities, or fade away? How can senior communities help with those choices and transitions?

"I worked as an activities coordinator in two different continuing care retirement communities (CCRCs) in rural Pennsylvania, where fostering a sense of community among residents was the number-one priority," says Turiano. "One person was responsible for planning and running the daily activities of residents in assisted living and nursing care units. Without these daily activities, the residents would often stay in their rooms, socially isolated. With activities, there was an almost immediate change in the residents' happiness, purpose, and sense of community."

5 Ways Senior Living Communities Can Help Foster Purpose

Recently I spoke with several experts to share smart ways for senior living communities to help older adults find or rediscover a sense of purpose:

1. Connect People to Their Environment

Fostering a sense of engagement with the environment -- including other residents, staff workers, surrounding community, and individuals' families -- connects older people to purpose.

"At our assisted living home, we have the Ambassador Program, which is led by residents and is more than just a welcoming club," says Laurie Henley, executive director of Sunrise Assisted Living of Hunter Mill, located in northern Virginia. "Seven volunteers help establish community for newcomers, akin to a college dorm experience where you quickly form a family. They meet every new person with the purposeful message: 'This is our home and we are proud of where we live. Let's make it wonderful for each other.'"

By reaching out, they create and model purpose for the other residents.

2. Set up Daily Activities

Senior living communities come alive when they schedule daily activities that stimulate the mind and body, celebrate holidays and special occasions, and create opportunities for social connections.

"We encourage meal sharing, gardening clubs, and fostering relationships through common goals and interests, like faith, gardening, and games, to name a few," says Henley.

3. Look for Opportunities to Get Involved in the Local Community

Don't just focus your efforts inside the senior living community. Look outside the four walls into local neighborhoods and you'll discover opportunities to foster purpose on every corner.

"It's been a boon for us to partner with organizations outside our 'bricks and mortar' with elementary schools and churches," says Henley. "We have created a great deal of tutoring, teaching, and intergenerational mentoring that has given our residents a sense of worth and the good feeling that comes from giving back."

Matching residents with common interests and getting them involved with a community goal is another way to renew their purpose. "Our residents and staff recently rallied together for the Maryland SPCA's annual March for the Animals," says Miller. "They walked 1.5 miles together after raising money for the cause via sponsorship donations."

4. Help the Residents Lead

One surefire way to dampen purpose is by taking away an older adult's autonomy and opportunity to lead. Consider ways to place older adults in leadership roles with responsibilities.

"We have more than 15 different resident committees to assist in decision making throughout the community, from interior design and grounds keeping to activities and dining," says Miller. "Serving on a committee has helped several residents get involved with their community and even find a greater purpose through serving a greater cause than themselves."

5. Remember That One Size Does Not Fit All

Fostering togetherness builds community, but the most important factor in driving purpose is unique to each individual.

What ignites passion and connection in one may do nothing for another. As much as possible, provide lots of options for groups, events, and social interactions so that residents can tailor their purpose based on what works for them.

"For one person, religious services might be crucial to developing purpose," says Turiano. "For others, it may be sharing meals with other residents as they were accustomed to doing throughout their adult lives."

Providing options provides a sense of autonomy. They should choose the activity, when they want to eat, how they want to participate. Especially in a new setting that might feel restrictive at times, compared to living on your own, making choices fosters purpose.

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Psychology Today notes that a recently accumulating body of research (more than 70 studies) regarding purpose across the lifespan confirms what many of us have long suspected: Your sense of purpose in life tends to peak during young adulthood and drop sharply through late adulthood.

With increases both in our longevity and in the number of older adults in long-term care communities, we need to keep looking at smart ways to help older adults thrive in senior living environments.

That might be the best example yet of community driving purpose.


over 1 year ago, said...

I do think a sense of purpose takes you a lot further in life than all the doctors can. If you are a person who has developed interests/hobbies earlier in your life and you can continue these interests well into your senior years, that makes such a difference. The problem is when you can no longer do the things you used to and you really need to develop new hobbies, interests, friends well into your senior years. But everyone needs a reason to get up in the morning. Good article.


over 1 year ago, said...

SusieQ, she wants you to do it with her. I wondered the same thing about my father and my grandmother - why they didn't get involved in the activities around them? I figured out they are at a place in their lives where they are insecure in their abilities to just join in. They want someone to do it with, someone they trust who already knows their limitations. Can you blame them? I found my father is much more willing to do things if I am there, too. After he gets used to doing something regularly, maybe he will do it on his own but it's as scary as the first day of kindergarten.


over 2 years ago, said...

How can you get the senior involved who is suffering from severe depression and only wants to lay around, continuously complains of being sick and needing to go to a doctor although they have been to doctors, hospitals and there is nothing physically wrong, only the depression, which I know can be very detrimental to a persons health. Our mother is not even at this point, willing to try despite the senior residence she lives at has activities, people to talk to and do activities with. All she seems to want is her children to be there 24/7 which is an impossible feat due to work schedules. We are at our wits end and quite frankly don't know what to do to get her up and going. There are no physical limitations in her but the limitations her depression has out on her.