Avoiding Caregiver Burnout Questions
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I'd like to pursue setting-up a care-giver's support program...
Caring for a dying loved one is difficult enough, without having to worry about where you are going to sleep. I recommend that you contact local hospice agencies. Some hospice teams have 'sitters' who stay with patients who are actively dying around the clocks for days, so family can be there when they can and leave when they must... -
How can I start a caregiver support group?
See some thoughts here: http://www.caring.com/blogs/self-caring/diy-caregiver-support-groups -
Is there any type of weekend respite care exchange available?
Weekend respite care programs do exist. They might be different than you describe. Within your community,if you want to start this kind of service to benefit yourself and others,I encourage you to try to do it. It will take networking. Since your husband is in adult day care, start where you are. Do they have a support group for their clients... -
Where can someone receive help for caring for their ex-husband?
Your friend is going the extra mile by caring for care for her ex-husband. While she deserves extra credit, she probably will not get it, at least no financially. Any property her ex has is his alone, and she has no share in it. So if she ha used her personal funds to pay for his care, that is money gone that she will not be re-compensated for... -
My mother won't accept help from anyone else and my life is a mess because of it, what should I do?
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How can I help my mom take care of my dad at a long distance?
There are many things you can do to support your parents and make these next years the best they can be for your parents and leave you with more peace of mind. As a long distance caregiver, you need to arrange for the support for your parents and for yourself... -
How can I manage the stress of caregiving for someone with sundown syndrome?
Cathy, all of your feelings are completely valid and normal. I'm so happy to hear you are seeking professional health. Talking to someone is very important, be it a friend or a professional. -
Can a person start expecting too much help?
Yes, definitely. This often happens as a result of family doing for an elder things they are capable of doing themselves. After a while, the elder then expects these things done for them. When caregivers do too much, they may rob an older person of dignity and self respect... -
What can I do about high blood pressure caused by stress?
My first thought when I read your letter is how are you checking your blood pressure (BP)? Are you getting it done by a professional, or are you using one of those little machines to do it for you? If you are, the machine may not be reading your BP correctly... -
How can I get the training I need to become a caregiver?
Caregiving, even with experience, is tough work. I appreciate that you are trying to do a good job, and I think it is great that you are so caring! -
Should I feel guilty for being unhappy with my caregiving situation?
I'm glad that my words helped. You also may seek out a formal support group for those caring for loved ones. There are lots of them out there that people really don't know. Try starting with the Alzheimer's Association at www.alz.org. -
Sometimes caregiving for mom is just too much and just don't know what way to turn anymore, what can I do?
This does sound like a difficult situation. So it’s time to take some action, not only to help your mom, but also to reduce your stress. I know that you’re feeling as if the situation is hopeless, but if you use the resources that are available to you and make some changes, you’ll find that things rings really can improve... -
As an in-home caregiver, do I get breaks and lunch breaks?
Caregiving is a service where a break is so much needed. We shouldn't have to ask, but we often do. What are our rights as employees? Do we get paid caregiver breaks to eat lunch or drink a cup of tea? Fortunately, Arizona now has help. Please call the Arizona Worker Rights Center 602-254-5452... -
How will I ever get over the guilt I feel for placing my mother in a nursing home?
Hi Everyone, Thank you for sharing your experiences and suggestions with "crystalslayer." You may continue this conversation in a safe and supportive environment in the Assisted Living Support Group on Caring.com: http://www.caring.com/support-groups/assisted-living You can also find other online support... -
How can I handle the stress of my father's rapid decline?
I can hear your sadness and anxiety in your words. You are not alone in feeling this way. Every caregiver goes through it. You have every right to feel the way you do. Never feel like you can't express your feelings. I wouldn't express these with your father, but find a confidant to listen, cry, or scream with you... -
Should we put our mom with Alzheimer's in a home for my the sake of my sister's mental and physical health?
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I'm losing myself, being a caregiver.
I sympathize and empathize with you as a caregiver for an Alzheimer’s love one. You’re correct, it does extract a heavy price. Your question about how to handle the 24/7 demands of caregiving and the prospect of many more years to come is excellent and one that is frequently asked. -
My parents require 24 hour care, but we can't afford to hire someone. What should I do?
Unfortunately, even the best, most well-meaning caregivers cannot provide adequate in-home care for chronically ill parents indefinitely. The quality of care will suffer, the caregivers will become overwhelmed or unable to maintain their other commitments, or there will be a crisis that cannot be managed... -
How can I keep my stress and health under control while caregiving for my dad with Alzheimer's?
Hey Chrissy. First time I've answered anything on Caring.com, but here it is. First--what other people in your life can help? Family, friends, any area support groups? If you can find a good one, a therapist can help with the stress and health issues. -
How can I keep our caregiving situation from ruining our marriage?
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