What are my parent's housing options if my mother does not pass a cognitive screening test?

Renees asked...

My parents are on a waiting list for a continuing care facility, but in the year that they've been waiting, my mother's memory has deteriorated substantially. Although she has not been diagnosed with dementia, I'm afraid that she won't pass a cognitive screening test. What happens if she fails the test, and what are their options for continuing to live together?

Expert Answer

Nan Hayes is founder of MoveSeniors.com, the national resource network of Certified Relocation and Transition Specialists for seniors, and President of RightSized Living, a senior home transition service in Illinois.

Since other factors such as stress or depression may cause symptoms of memory loss it is important that your mother makes time for the assessment. Your family needs to understand both her current and future health care requirements in order to make the best and most cost-effective choice for  long term housing and care. If it is determined that she suffers from a form of dementia, such as Alzheimer’s, your father will also need appropriate resources to help him in his role as caregiver. You will find you have several care options depending on diagnosis and the progression of the disease. Home care or some assisted living settings may make it possible for you parents to live together while receiving the support they need. The continuing care community you have already looked into will most likely have alternatives to care. The Alzheimer’s Association website has a great deal of resources and information that will be very valuable to you as you begin to address these concerns with your parents.