What rights do I have to see my father?
What rights do I have to see my father who has been given a time limit on life and who resides with my sister? She allows all other siblings to call and come over except for me and has threatened to have me arrested if I step on her property.
Expert Answer
Practically speaking, your best chance to visit with your father will be to try to smooth things over with your sister. It sounds as if the two of you are on a rocky path—and in truth, may never see eye to eye or become buddies. But she may be able to be convinced that you have your father’s best interests at heart and deserve some time with him while there is still the opportunity for that.
Unless you are acting belligerently or threateningly, the police will not likely arrest you for being on your sister’s property unless she has a restraining order against you. Still, you would be wise to arrange for a visit in advance rather than show up on her doorstep.
Think of other people who might be able to help you and your sister work this out. If your father has expressed a desire to see you, this should speak the most loudly and convincingly for all concerned. Also, another one of your siblings or a family friend, for example, may be able to convince your sister of your good intentions more easily than you can at this point—and might also be willing to come along or be stationed nearby on the first visit or two. After that, your sister may see fit to relax her visitation rules.
If this option doesn’t work, consider consulting a family mediation service. Most areas have community boards or other groups that can intercede to help work out solutions in such situations—and their help is usually free or inexpensive.