State that offers CNA or spousal pay program to assist in the care of a 60 year old legally blind with early onset dementia?

My husband of over 25 years is blind with early onset dementia and requires round the clock care .We have 1 child under the age of 12 . I have been my husbands sole caregiver for almost 5 years . We have gone through our lifesavings the money from our business and lost our home. Ive stayed afloat barely by selling on ebay and craigslist but as his needs progress I am less able to manage working at home and caretaking .

We are in Florida where he only help at all i have recieved is a 120 month stipend for the disabled at risk of nursing home placement program. He turned 60 last month and now recieves nothing .I am told that though there are programs on paper they are not being funded so evn though he is on a 'waiting list ' he will NEVER get the service . I cannot even get a few hours of respite so I can work untill he turns 65 ! The only 'assist' I can get is to place him in a full time care facility . I am willing to move anywhere that will allow me to continue to care for my spouse fulltime myself or will provide him with a cna so that i can get outside employment . Please if anyone can share information and resources it would be most gratefully appreciated .