How do I help my mother get over or cope with her fear of falling?
Sorry to hear about your mother's setback. I think there are a few avenues to pursue in her case. First, it's important to make sure that her vertigo is not more serious or treatable than an "allergy." A neurologist may be able to identify another cause such as lack of blood flow to the base of the brain, or a new stroke. She should also see an otolaryngologist (ear, nose, and throat specialist), who can see if she has a treatable condition of the inner ear, such as a crystal in the inner ear or Menier's Disease.
Second, I always recommend that patients suffering from vertigo seek out the help of a physical or occupational therapist who specializes in vertigo. They may be able to help your mother re-train her sense of equilibrium, or help with physical coping mechanisms.
Finally, your mother may benefit from medication, such as a low-dose benzodiazepine medication like Valium. These medicines could help improve her sense of vertigo, while at the same time soothing her panic about falling.
