Can I talk to my sister's hospice caregivers in another state?
I would suggest you contact the hospice that is caring for your sister, directly, and explain your concerns. As a family member you may be able to talk to the caregivers your sister has. This is not a “given” though. If your sister has stated she only wants to speak to her guardian, for example, you may have to travel to Kansas City and see what is happening for yourself. At any rate, contacting the hospice will be your best course of action.
To be very clear, hospice is about dying with dignity and with respect. It is about comfort and caring for people at the end of their lives. It’s intended to be supportive of both patient and the family. Hospices are governed by state laws and almost all hospices are Medicare certified. These laws, state and federal, are very strict and any question of violating the ethics of hospice philosophy and care would not be tolerated.
I like to say that hospice care helps patients celebrate the rest of their lives. We simply accept that death is the natural closure to life. So, to think that we would do anything to hasten that process, or deny a person their personal possessions, or of enjoying their remaining life, is the opposite of what our mission is. Again, I urge you to contact the hospice caring for your sister, and get so straight answers.
