I'm sorry for putting this here. I will repost in questions. Again, my apologies. I will leave it here, unless asked to remove it, cause who knows it may do something for someone?
Our attorney, rather my mom's even though I handled it and he supposedly did what we talked about. He was supposed to put the house into mine and my moms name. I just went and got a copy of the deed and it hasn't changes since the 60's.Mom Is supposedly in final stages of Alzheimer's, but I don't see it. Caregivers who are sons and family can have denial blinders on.
Curious as to what I can do about that, but that wasn't my main reason for responding.
I am in a very similar position. I am on disability. My mom gets SSI and her pension, I just get my SSI disability.
The scenario above, does that apply to every state? It is a federal program, but isn't it governed differently state by state?
Another attorney here in NY had pretty much told me the same thing, that Medicaid will take her income, but the fact that I am disabled and living with her, I can stay here as long as I want. Is that correct?
What about when mom passes?
Does mom's pension get taken towards the nursing home too?
I am so confused, as everyone tells you something else,even attorneys.
I am my mom's sole caregiver and it is killing me mentally and physically. The reasons I was disabled before my mom became totally dependent on, well me.Even with my sister and grandchildren a mile away. No contact at all.
I know this isn't the question area, but I finally got it out.
sorry and thanks
I know I forgot stuff, hard to believe huh?