Paula Spencer Scott, Caring.com senior editor

Paula Spencer Scott, senior editor, works on Caring's Health and Caregiver Wellness channels, including writing the Steps & Stages Alzheimer's resource, FYI Daily, the Self Caring blog, and other medical and caregiving content. She's specialized in women's life-stage concerns (baby care, family care, self care, elder care) from her first job as an editor at 50 Plus Magazine through stints as a Woman's Day columnist, a Parenting Magazine contributing editor, the author of Momfidence, and the co-author of five books with doctors at Harvard, UCLA, Duke, and Arizona State. She's a 2011 Met Life Foundation Journalists in Aging fellow, awarded by the Gerontological Society of America and New American Media, and serves on the board of the University of North Carolina Science and Medical Journalism Program. A mother of four, she lives in the San Francisco Bay Area.

In the late 2000s, she lost both her parents, in their 80s, to cancer; her father also had dementia and stroke. "In short order during that phase," she says, "I experienced just about everything that's on this site, from dealing with their illnesses to selling the family home and moving Dad, plus advance directives, end-of-life planning, hospice, death -- and stress."

Paula Spencer Scott can be reached at paulaspencerscott@caring.com.

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