Kate Rauch

Caring.com senior editor

About

Catherine Anne Rauch, Senior Editor of the Daily Care channel, has spent more than two decades writing about health for websites and print media, including WebMD, Drugstore.com, the Washington Post Health Section, and Newsday as well as HMOs such as Kaiser Permanente (in the San Francisco Bay Area) and Group Health (in Seattle). Catherine holds an M.S. in journalism from Columbia University and a B.S. in cultural geography from the University of California at Berkeley. Catherine's degree in geography led her to spend five years working as an archaeologist and anthropologist in Alaska. One of her main activities there was collecting oral histories from Eskimo elders, and she was very moved by the reverence Eskimos have for older people -- the keepers of essential wisdom and skills.

Catherine lives in Albany, California with her two children. She is the only sibling of three to live near her 80-something father, enjoying the still developing richness of their relationship as they both get older. Very much a member of the "sandwich generation," she often finds herself driving her son to Little League games one moment, and touching base with her dad about his new pacemaker the next.

Recently Published on Caring.com

Friday November 06, 2009
1. 5 Ways to Ensure a Personal Emergency Response System (PERS) Really Works
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2. 10 Questions to Ask When Shopping for a Personal Emergency Response System (PERS)
  Checklist - It's a good idea to compare your options when choosing a personal emergency response system (PERS) for your parent. Use this checklist as a guide. When talking to salespeople, take notes on your findings, then narrow down the list of potential providers. Caution: Be wary of high-pressure sales tactics... 1 Comment
Thursday October 29, 2009
1. How can I help my dad recover from neglect?
  Answer - Your situation sounds alarming, and I'm glad you're reaching out for help. It's not clear where your father is --- a nursing home? A hospice facility? Regardless, the situation sounds unacceptable. I'm going to suggest two places to look for help...
Tuesday October 06, 2009
1. 15 Questions to Ask When Interviewing a Home Care Worker on Your Own
  Article - If you're hiring an in-home health care worker without going through an agency, these questions should help you find a reliable match for your parent. Involve your parent in the interview process as much as possible. It's his interview, with you asking the questions for him (if he's able to ask them himself, even better)...
2. New Caregiver: What She Should Know Before Her First Day of Work
  Article - Be sure to cover these essentials before your parent's new caregiver starts on the job.
Friday October 02, 2009
1. 6 Essential Supplies for Caring for Your Parent's Hair
  Article - It's extremely helpful to have everything you need to care for your parent's hair in one portable place, so you can tote it as needed to the bathroom, bedroom, or a big comfy chair in front of the TV. Look for a plastic basket (which is waterproof and ideal for shampoo time) with a carry handle...
2. Family Meeting Agenda: How to Manage Friends and Family
  Article - Use this agenda as a guide for a family meeting on how to help an aging love one.
3. 8 Essentials for Bathing Your Parent
  Article - Having these items on hand will make bathtime safer and easier:
4. 6 Ways to Make Bathing Your Parent More Comfortable
  Article - There's no getting around the inherent awkwardness of giving your mom or dad a bath -- you feel it and so do they. Try these six ideas to up the comfort level:
Friday August 21, 2009
1. Home Care Problems: What to Do If Things Go Wrong When You're Providing Home Care
  Article - Common problems that may arise when you're caring for an older adult in your home or theirs, and tips for handling them.
Tuesday August 18, 2009
1. Providing Home Care for an Older Adult: A Good Fit?
  Article - When older adults need daily care, you can set up systems to assist them in their home. Daily home care isn't for everyone, though.
Thursday August 13, 2009
1. Moving an Older Adult in With You: A Good Family Fit?
  Article - Moving an older adult into your home isn't a simple decision. But home care could be a great solution if you decide your family is suited for it. 2 Comments
Monday August 10, 2009
1. Giving a Bed Bath: A Step-by-Step Guide
  Article - Giving a bed bath: a step-by-step guide. When getting to the shower or tub isn't possible, a bed bath is the only option.
2. 15 Questions to Ask When Interviewing a Home Care Worker on Your Own
  Checklist - If you're hiring an in-home health care worker without going through an agency, these questions should help you find a reliable match for your parent. Involve your parent in the interview process as much as possible. It's his interview, with you asking the questions for him (if he's able to ask them himself, even better)...
Friday August 07, 2009
1. Quick Guide to Death Notifications and Obituaries
  Article - This summary of the four main types of death announcements will help you decide how and where to notify others of your loved one's passing.
Thursday August 06, 2009
1. How to Write an Obituary
  Article - Find out how to write a meaningful obituary to notify others publicly of a recent death in the family, as well as commemorate that loved one.
Friday July 31, 2009
1. Who to Call When a Patient Is Seriously Ill
  Article - Three key players who can be a huge help in planning a patient's care.
Friday July 24, 2009
1. 8 Ways to Help Older Adults Stay Active and Engaged
  Article - A variety of reasonably priced programs and services can help older adults become more active and engaged. Making a good match for your family member depends largely on his condition and needs.
Monday June 01, 2009
1. 15 Questions to Ask When Interviewing a Home Health Care Worker From an Agency
  Checklist - 15 questions for interviewing a home care worker from an agency. Help find the right home care worker for your aging parent. 3 Comments
2. How to Hire Urgently Needed In-Home Care
  Article - When someone needs help at home, the ideal solution may be to hire an in-home caregiver. Follow these steps to find a good caregiver who can start right away. 1 Comment
Tuesday May 19, 2009
1. How do I help my mother, who is being physically threatened by my father and refuses help?
  Answer - Ideas for seeking help if you're concerned about the relationship between your parents.
Monday May 18, 2009
1. Is there a program where I get paid to be my mom's caregiver?
  Answer - If your mother is on Medicaid or Medicaid eligible, there may be a program where you (or another family member) can get paid to be her home caregiver. These programs vary, state by state. Check out this Caring.com article with more information. You'll need to contact the Medicaid office serving your mom...
2. How can I get a list of elder care providers in Miami, FL?
  Answer - Caring.com hopes to have this kind of information soon. Meanwhile, a great source for finding care is the US Government's Eldercare Locator. The locator will connect you with the Local Area Agency on Aging serving a specific address in Miami (you enter a zip code) and someone there can refer you to local home caregivers...
3. Where can I find low cost dental treatment in Phoeniz, AZ?
  Answer - Boy, you're not alone. Finding low-cost dental care is tough anywhere. I'm going to suggest you do a quick internet search with the terms "low cost" and "dental care" and Phoenix. I just did this and came up with several sources. Here are a couple:
4. Are there listings, generated geographically, for home health care workers that include basic scope of services and budget figures?
  Answer - There are a few services that do this online. Search using the terms home caregivers or home health aids and find. Caring.com will have something similar available soon; we're working on it. Meanwhile, your best bet, I think, is the Eldercare Locator, a U.S...
5. Are there programs in Texas to help the elderly with the electric bills?
  Answer - Wow, that's a whopper of a bill, I can see why you'd like to find your grandmother help. Your best bet is to start by contacting your grandmother's electric company directly and asking. Many power companies have rate or payment programs for the low-income or disabled...
6. I would like to have someone visit my mom twice a week while I am gone for two months in January and February. Who do I talk to about it?
  Answer - Hi Pat,
7. How can I find transportation for my mom to get to church and the market?
  Answer - This is a tough situation for you. Give yourself lots of credit for getting the ball rolling on finding help. My gut reaction is to suggest you start by asking at your mom's church if there's anyone willing or interesting in driving her on a few errands, either as a volunteer or for a small fee, whatever you can afford...
8. Where can I find a stroke specialist to examine my mother in hospice care?
  Answer - I would start by asking her doctors or medical team. It sounds like you're specifically looking for a specialist who does home visits (a rarity, indeed, but not unheard of.) Your mom's hospice team should know who does this in your area, and be able to make referrals...
9. How can I find any local elder care communities that have a social workers on staff?
  Answer - I've been thinking about your question, and reviewing my resources, and keep getting back to the same place: I'm not sure there's an easy way to get this information besides old-fashioned leg work. Most larger senior communities serving residents with varied health needs have pretty good support staff, including social workers...
10. Is there a program for financial assistance to help me care for my husband and still pay our bills?
  Answer - This is a difficult situation for you, and I hope you have the support of friends and family. I wish I could tell you there's one magical place to go for help, but I'm afraid there isn't. But I can think of a few things you should look into as possible sources of financial assistance. This takes a little leg work (maybe more than a little)...
Friday May 15, 2009
1. Paratransit Service for Older Adults
  Article - How paratransit can help older adults stay independent after they can no longer drive.
Tuesday May 12, 2009
1. How to Place an Obituary
  Article - Learn about placing an obituary in a local newspaper and writing newspaper obituaries at Caring.com.
Thursday May 07, 2009
1. A Buyer's Guide to Personal Emergency Response Systems
  Buying Guide - Read our free personal emergency response guide, to learn about personal emergency response systems for 24-hour call center support at Caring.com.
Wednesday May 06, 2009
1. Bathing Your Mom: A Step-by-Step Guide
  Article - Strategies for tackling one of the trickiest and most intimate parts of caring for your mother when she's unable to care for herself. 2 Comments
2. Bathing Your Dad: A Step-by-Step Guide
  Article - Strategies for tackling one of the trickiest and most intimate parts of caring for your father when he's unable to care for himself. 2 Comments
3. A Step-by-Step Guide to Shampooing an Older Adult's Hair
  Article - Step-by-step guidelines to shampooing an older adult's hair -- what supplies you'll need and tips to help keep her comfortable. 1 Comment
Thursday April 30, 2009
1. Alternatives to Driving for Older Adults
  Article - When an older adult can't drive anymore, check out these helpful transportation alternatives. 1 Comment
2. 8 Tips for Safe and Comfortable Airplane Travel
  Checklist - Air travel doesn't have to be uncomfortable -- or even dangerous -- for your parent. Our expert tips can make the trip easier for both of you. 1 Comment
Thursday April 02, 2009
1. Managing Friends and Family When You're the Primary Caregiver
  Article - How do you manage friends and family when you're the primary caregiver? Getting help from friends and family is essential when you're the primary caregiver.
Wednesday February 04, 2009
1. Where can I find transportation information for my dad?
  Answer - How to get information on senior transportation.
Tuesday January 27, 2009
1. How can I find someone to come and regularly assess my dad to determine if he needs additional care?
  Answer - Absolutely. It sounds like you're describing a geriatric care manager, who acts as a kind of chief elder care organizer, helping connect the dots for their clients. You can find them on-line or in an old-fashioned paper telephone book. The Eldercare Locator is also a great source for finding geriatric care managers...
Tuesday January 13, 2009
1. What size walker should I choose?
  Answer - Don't choose a walker for your parent without getting her assessed by a professional.
2. How do I convince my father to use a walker?
  Answer - How do you convince your parent with serious balance issues to use a walker.
3. Does anyone know any group that offers support in the Ft. Worth, TX area for caregivers?
  Answer - A really great source for finding services related to caring for the elderly is your local Area Agency on Aging, a government referral program. Click on the link to find out how to contact the agency closest to you. Someone there should be able to help you find support groups. Good luck -- this is an important step to take...
Thursday January 01, 2009
1. Helping Seniors With "A Soft Place to Land"
  Blog Post - There are all kinds of ways caregivers can help seniors benefit from the positives of religion and spirituality, even if they don't follow formal traditions.
Monday December 22, 2008
1. A Flu Shot Mystery, or Family Lessons in Fuzzy Memories
  Blog Post - When caring for someone with dementia or memory loss, advanced planning to give yourself legal access to their medical records is essential.
Friday December 19, 2008
1. How do I contact meals on wheels?
  Answer - Tips for contacting Meals on Wheels and other meals and nutrition services.
Thursday December 18, 2008
1. Enter the Caregiving Tough Love Zone
  Blog Post - When caring for seniors, sometimes "tough love" is the only way to help. 1 Comment
Tuesday December 16, 2008
1. How can I get my mother-in-law to take her medicine?
  Answer - Hi Beth,
Monday December 08, 2008
1. Kicked Off Hospice for Not Dying Soon Enough
  Blog Post - If the senior in your care is receiving Medicare hospice, be aware that she can lose services if she doesn't die within the roughly six month time limit. 1 Comment
Wednesday December 03, 2008
1. How can we get my grandmother to bathe?
  Answer - Refusing to bathe is fairly common among elderly people, and there are several reasons for this. Bathing can become painful as muscles weaken and joints stiffen. Many seniors have balance problems, and fear falling. Depression can also make seniors lethargic about self-care; kind of like, "I'm going to die soon, so what's the point...
2. How can I get my grandmother to change and dispose of her adult diapers regularly?
  Answer - Hi Danielle, I feel for you. This is a tough situation. I guess the good news is that your grandmother is wearing diapers (I recently had a question from someone whose parent refuses to do this, soiling herself.)
Monday December 01, 2008
1. Home-Spun Gift Certificates: Unique, Meaningful, and Budget-Flexible
  Blog Post - Personalized home-made gift certificates are a budget-friendly holiday idea for seniors or their caregivers. Here are some ideas. 2 Comments
Monday November 24, 2008
1. Save on Seniors' Grocery Bills (and More) Online
  Blog Post - These websites can lower the household shopping bills for seniors and the whole family.
Monday November 17, 2008
1. What's The Hurry? Slowing Down Eases Stress
  Blog Post - Slow down: It eases the stress of eldercare.
Friday November 14, 2008
1. How can I handle washing my mom's clothes from her incontinence in a sanitary way?
  Answer - Incontinence is common with the elderly, and can be tricky to deal with. The first thing that comes to mind is why isn't she using diapers or pads? There are an array of products available for adults. If you aren't comfortable bringing the subject up --- and it is sensitive, ask your mom's doctor to have the discussion...
Thursday November 13, 2008
1. Are there any special pads for mattresses to prevent bedsores for a bedridden person?
  Answer - The answer is yes, there are pads that can help prevent bedsores. This includes foam overlays that fit over the mattress, and pads filled with gel, air, or water. There are also a number of mattresses designed to prevent and help treat bedsores; with names like "alternating pressure" or "low air-loss" mattress...
2. Are there programs available to help pay for home care?
  Answer - You ask a question that is on so many people's minds. Unfortunately, there isn't one simple answer. A few factors to consider are if your in-laws are on Medicare or Medicaid. In some, limited, circumstances, Medicaid pays for home care. It's more complicated with Medicare, which rarely covers home care, but worth investigating...
Monday November 10, 2008
1. 10 "Boredom Busters" for Frail Seniors
  Blog Post - 10 ideas for helping frail or housebound elderly stay engaged and active. 4 Comments
Thursday November 06, 2008
1. I'm moving my mother, but should I take her by car or send her by plane?
  Answer - Your mother is fortunate you're looking our for her with such care. I think the best approach to answering this question is to draw up a "pros" and "cons" list for each option and hash-out the details. Include things like costs; physical comfort (driving may involve windy roads and bumps, but unlike...
2. What could be the reason for the metallic taste in my mouth?
  Answer - Please see your doctor to discuss this concern. There are several things that can cause a lingering taste or odor in the mouth including gum or dental conditions, medications, diet, eating habits, and intestinal conditions. It's possible your head injury played a role. You need to see a medical doctor for an examination and diagnosis...
Monday November 03, 2008
1. 6 Ideas for Getting Time Alone at Home When You're a Caregiver
  Blog Post - Ideas for getting alone time in your home when you live with a frail senior. 2 Comments
Wednesday October 29, 2008
1. How can I care for my elderly mother now that I've been diagnosed with cancer?
  Answer - Take a deep breath, and try to give yourself some adjustment time. A cancer diagnosis is scary, but you're just getting started on learning what lies ahead, and things may not be as bad as they seem this moment. How thoughtful of you to think of your mom at this time. You need to line-up support for yourself, and for your mother...
Monday October 27, 2008
1. For Presidential Candidates or the Rest of Us, Caring for a Sick Senior Is a Juggling Act
  Blog Post - Attention is on Barack Obama for leaving the campaign trail to visit his sick grandmother, but this work-life juggling act is familiar ground for anyone caring for a sick or frail elder.
Tuesday October 21, 2008
1. Can care suffer if a patient sees several doctors in a practice as opposed to one?
  Answer - Thanks for your question. It seems you're saying your patient sees different doctors at the same clinic, as opposed to one. Does he always go to the same clinic? If he always goes to the same clinic, he should have one file or set of medical records there; which all doctors use and consult. This should help with consistency of care...
Monday October 20, 2008
1. Organizing Life Records Brings Relief to Seniors and Their Family
  Blog Post - A class on organizing life records brings relief for one elderly mom and her daughter. 2 Comments
Monday October 13, 2008
1. For Family Caregivers, Saying "No" Is an Act of Love
  Blog Post - Taking care of yourself helps you take care of others. When you feel maxed out as a caregiver, it's really OK to say no. 1 Comment
Monday October 06, 2008
1. Elders Keep Falling a Secret for Fear of Losing Independence
  Blog Post - Some elders hide their falls for fear of losing independence. Caregivers can take steps to reduce the risks of falling. 1 Comment
Wednesday October 01, 2008
1. How can I get my father to eat more?
  Answer - The first thing you need to do is take your dad to his doctor for an evaluation. There could be medical reasons for why he isn't eating. Lack of appetite is a symptom of some conditions. He might also have swallowing or chewing problems, which make eating painful or difficult. He may be too embarrassed to mention this...
Monday September 29, 2008
1. Diaper Humor is Best Left to Those Who Know What They're Talking About
  Blog Post - A recent discussion about humor and adult diapers points out the very thin line between offensive and funny.
Wednesday September 24, 2008
1. What is the first thing that a caregiver should do when they start working with a client for the first time?
  Answer - This is a wonderful question, showing your sensitivity to your client, and interest in getting off to a good start. I'll assume you're discussing your job duties with your client's wife. Make sure you also know your client's likes, dislikes, habits, fears, etc...
Monday September 22, 2008
1. Personal To-Do Lists That Help You With Caregiving Challenges
  Blog Post - Caring.com launches new To-Do lists to help you navigate caregiver challenges.
Monday September 15, 2008
1. Memory Classes: They Only Work if You Really Want to Be There
  Blog Post - Classes to enhance memory are only beneficial if the student really wants to be there.
Monday September 08, 2008
1. Adaptive Senior Clothing: A Welcome Solution to Dressing Challenges
  Blog Post - Adaptive clothing makes dressing much easier for older people with arthritis, Alzheimer's, and other debilitating conditions. 1 Comment
Thursday September 04, 2008
1. I'm starting to feel abused by being a caregiver. What can I do about it?
  Answer - It certainly sounds like you need to shake things up with this friend, in terms of expectations and I can understand how tricky this may be. I think it's time for some tough love. You need to tell your friend straight out that you can't be her primary caregiver, you have all kinds of other things going on in your life...
Monday September 01, 2008
1. National Grandparents Day September 7: A Day to Reach Out to All Elderly
  Blog Post - National Grandparents Day on September 7 was conceived as a day to remember lonely nursing home residents, but now honors all the elderly. 2 Comments
Thursday August 28, 2008
1. Attending my parents medical appointments.
  Community Post - You need to get guardianship or power of attorney to attend someone else's medical appointments (without their explicit permission) and to have access to their medical information. I'm not a lawyer, but I understand this can be a simple or complicated process, depending on the family dynamics, condition of the patient, personalities of the lawyers, etc...
Wednesday August 27, 2008
1. How can I help my mother lose weight?
  Answer - Advice on helping your parent lose weight.
2. Are routines the best thing for patients?
  Answer - This is a wonderful question, because it shows great sensitivity to the person needing help. In general I think routines are best for many people, as they're far less stressful than having to adjust to newness and change. Routines can be comforting and reassuring...
Tuesday August 26, 2008
1. How can my mother handle my father's poor nutrition and eating habits?
  Answer - If your parents are dining alone, then your mother could simply pull the crackers away then he'd be hungry for the meal. If need be, she can explain to others, and staff, why she's doing this. When dining with others and he is more apt to fill up on crackers than finish his meal, I think a good start would be asking the dining server for small portions...
Monday August 25, 2008
1. Vision Problems: New Ways to "Read" When Older Eyes Fail
  Blog Post - For seniors losing their eyesight, there's a world of services to help them read. Here are some big ones. 3 Comments
Monday August 18, 2008
1. Are Your Parents Driving Their Caregivers to Quit?
  Blog Post - It's a more common problem than you might think. Here's why it happens--and what to do.
Monday August 11, 2008
1. Senior Safety Net at Your Fingertips: Dial 2-1-1
  Blog Post - 2-1-1 is a free nationwide telephone service that connects you to all kinds of local social service referrals, including for seniors.
Monday August 04, 2008
1. Dental Treatment for Alzheimer's Patients
  Blog Post - For people with Alzheimer's or dementia, specially trained dentists provide a gentle touch.
Thursday July 31, 2008
1. How do you deal with a parent that is unable to communicate?
  Answer - Ideas for assisting with a parent who can't communicate.
Wednesday July 30, 2008
1. How can I handle a situation where my father's caregiver is taking advantage of him?
  Answer - Oh dear, lots of red flags here. I especially don't like the part about the caregiver borrowing money. At the same time, as you point out, there's not much you can do, at least legally. And it sounds like she hasn't overtly done anything illegal. Is she repaying the money she's borrowing?
Monday July 28, 2008
1. Bathing Blocks: When an Elder Refuses to Bathe
  Blog Post - When your parents refuse to bathe, there are ways you can help them stay clean. 2 Comments
Friday July 25, 2008
1. How can I convince my father to bathe more often?
  Answer - I hope you got the answer I posted to your earlier email. If not, post again. Thanks.
Monday July 21, 2008
1. 10 Tips for Senior Care in a Rocky Economy
  Blog Post - Ten tips for caring for seniors in a tough economy. 1 Comment
Tuesday July 15, 2008
1. How do I get my dad to share the responsibility of making decisions about my mother's healthcare with me?
  Answer - Advice on encouraging a father to share the responsibility for making medical decisions about his wife.
Monday July 14, 2008
1. Navigating Senior Care in a Bleak Economy: Part 1
  Blog Post - Senior services face major cuts in today's sagging economy. What can caregivers can do to minimize impacts on their parents? 2 Comments
Monday July 07, 2008
1. Yummy Soft Foods For Seniors
  Blog Post - Soft food diets don't need to be bland. A growing body of cookbooks tell you how to prepare flavorful and nutritious soft meals. 1 Comment
2. What sort of refreshments should I have at a wake?
  Answer - This is an interesting question. And I think it has a simple answer: Whatever you want. A wake is a vigil, a time for watching over or being with the deceased before burial. Wakes are social events that almost always include refreshments, food and drinks. Alcoholic beverages are perfectly appropriate...
Wednesday July 02, 2008
1. What can I do to help convince my dad to bathe more often?
  Answer - Issues around bathing and aging are common, which doesn't mean they're easy to solve. You ask a question that several others have asked -- within the past week! I'm hoping our accumulated experience and expertise can help you with your dad. Many older people avoid bathing - for all kinds of reasons...
Tuesday July 01, 2008
1. My wife, age 88, does not like to take a shower. Is this normal?
  Answer - Just in the past week, I've had a number of questions about bathing. It really is common for older people to struggle with baths and showers and there are many understandable reasons for this. I'm going to assume this is a new development for your wife, versus how she's always been. If your wife has balance or strength problems, she may fear falling...
Monday June 30, 2008
1. "Wings" For Frail Seniors Who Can't Travel On Their Own
  Blog Post - Frail seniors can still travel with a little help. Here's a guide. 1 Comment
Monday June 23, 2008
1. Help Seniors Beat the Dangers of Summer Heat
  Blog Post - Tips for helping your parents avoid the risks of summer heat.
Friday June 20, 2008
1. Is there any financial aid for buying a home?
  Answer - Your idea makes so much sense, and it's something many families consider or actually do. I do not know of any financial aid to help you buy a house. Some brokers (and housing agencies) offer low-interest home loans for people with disabilities. (Legitimate loans.) Your parents should talk to banks and mortgage agencies in their area about this possibility...
Monday June 16, 2008
1. High Gas Prices May Encourage Older Drivers to Choose the Bus
  Blog Post - High gas prices may help older drivers give up their cars.
Saturday June 14, 2008
1. Is there such a thing as a geriatric health manager?
  Answer - Geriatric health or care managers can help you assess and manage your parents' needs, even when you live far away. 1 Comment
Thursday June 12, 2008
1. How do I address the use of the stove with my mother?
  Answer - Wow, this is a tough situation for you. You mention burning food and the stove, which are extremely important, but I think you're at a point where the larger issue is simply whether your mom can live independently at this stage of her life, or whether she needs more support. If she's wandering and burning food, safety issues are a big concern...
Wednesday June 11, 2008
1. Know Thy Father: A Guide to Dad's Day
  Blog Post - Knowing your dad well is a good guide to celebrating Father's Day.
Monday June 09, 2008
1. To Protect Seniors in Natural Disasters, Talk About It Beforehand
  Blog Post - Communication is key in protecting seniors in natural disasters.
2. About how much should caregivers be paid daily?
  Answer - Salaries for in-home caregivers vary greatly, but there are resources to help you narrow this down.
Monday June 02, 2008
1. Shingles Vaccine Strongly Recommended for Seniors
  Blog Post - A shingles vaccine is recommended for all seniors by the Centers For Disease Control, along with other adult vaccinations. 2 Comments
Friday May 30, 2008
1. How can I get transportation assistance?
  Answer - How to find transportation assistance.
Sunday May 25, 2008
1. Don't Wait for a Doctor's Visit to Test for High Blood Pressure
  Blog Post - For those with high blood pressure, home monitoring is recommended by the American Heart Association and other major organizations.
Friday May 23, 2008
1. How do I find in-home care for my father?
  Answer - How to find in-home care to help a sick parent.
2. Nobody knows why I am having these symptoms.
  Answer - Oh dear, this sounds very difficult for you. I'm not a doctor, but based on what your wrote, I think you need to be seen again -- in person -- perhaps by a new doctor. I'm a big advocate for getting second and even third opinions, if need be. Something is going on with you, and your quest (and yes, it will take time and effort) is to get to the bottom of it...
3. My mother is dying and has stopped eating. How long can you live without eating or drinking?
  Answer - This must be a very intense time for you. The length of time someone can live without eating depends on their weight (or amount of body fat), health, and, many believe, attitude. Medical experts usually say the average person can live for 4 to 6 weeks without food. The amount of time someone can go without water is much shorter, roughly a week (or less)...
Wednesday May 21, 2008
1. Cupboards Bare? Rising Food Prices Affect Seniors
  Blog Post - The rising cost of food is tough for many seniors, but here are some ways you can help. 5 Comments
Monday May 19, 2008
1. Real Men Can Have Brittle Bones
  Blog Post - Because osteoporosis is underdiagnosed in men, the American College of Physicians issued new guidelines urging doctors to screen men for osteoporosis.
Monday May 12, 2008
1. Should I sit in on my dad's medical appointments to make sure he discusses all issues he's having?
  Answer - Is is OK to sit in on your parents' medical appointments?
2. For Older Gals: Bring on the Meat. And the Fish, Tofu, and Eggs.
  Blog Post - Older women need to end plenty of protein to maintain muscle, which helps prevent falls.
3. A Healthy Gift for National Women's Health Week
  Blog Post - National Women's Health from May 11 to 17 is full of useful health prevention activities on-line and off.
Sunday May 11, 2008
1. How can I convince my mother's doctor to keep her out of a rehab facility?
  Answer - Ideas for talking to your parents' doctor about a rehabilitation plan you're not happy about.
Sunday May 04, 2008
1. Mom Far Away? Cool Gift Ideas, and Yes, There's Still Time!
  Blog Post - Mother's Day ideas for a mom who lives far away. 2 Comments
Saturday May 03, 2008
1. Shingles Isn't The Only Vaccination Seniors Need: May As Well Check In One Fell Swoop
  Blog Post - Shingles vaccination is recommended for seniors by the Centers for Disease Control; other vaccines are also on the list.
Friday May 02, 2008
1. How can I convince my mother and sister to step back without hurting their feelings?
  Answer - Family relations can get sensitive after serious surgery but honesty may help.
Wednesday April 30, 2008
1. How do we deal with my father who has heart failure who wants to travel and expects only family to care for him?
  Answer - Ideas when a father wants to travel but refuses outside help.
Tuesday April 29, 2008
1. How can I help my father get up from a fall without causing injury to him or me?
  Answer - If your father is at risk for falling or hurting you when you try to help him, see a physical therapist right away.
Monday April 28, 2008
1. Embarrassment Assistance! The Gift of Plain Wrapping
  Blog Post - Buying adult incontinence products online can save your parents from stressful embarrassment. 1 Comment
Saturday April 26, 2008
1. Are there any specific exercises out there that are geared towards seniors that will help them to gain better balance?
  Answer - There are all kinds of exercises that improve balance; here's help in finding them.
Friday April 25, 2008
1. If I hire an aide for my father should I be responsible for payments?
  Answer - There's no clear solution to the how's and who's of paying for in-home health care.
2. I want to know how to become certifed for home health care for my mother?
  Answer - Advice on becoming a paid caregiver for your parent.
Thursday April 24, 2008
1. Where can I find resources for transportation services in the Bay Area?
  Answer - Ideas for finding transportation services.
Monday April 21, 2008
1. How do I get my father to bath when he refuses to do anything but just wash off?
  Answer - Advice on getting a reluctant father to bathe.
Sunday April 20, 2008
1. Is there a resource to find a nurse who will travel to rural areas?
  Answer - Suggestions for finding a nurse to visit a patient in a rural area.
Thursday April 17, 2008
1. Fire! A Teaching Tool
  Blog Post - A tragic death in Texas serves as a reminder of how vulnerable seniors are in fires and how prevention can really help.
Wednesday April 16, 2008
1. How can I convince my mother that she needs an assistant to run errands instead of expecting me to do it when I live two hours away?
  Answer - Ideas for what to do when your mom expects you to do weekly errands, but she lives too far away for this to be practical.
2. Where can I find an appliance for toilet support?
  Answer - How to get help with a malfunctioning toilet part.
Sunday April 13, 2008
1. Playgrounds for Seniors
  Blog Post - They're marvelously designed for safe, healthy geriatric activity. And they're fun! 5 Comments
Thursday April 10, 2008
1. Mom is moving here from several states away. How do I find...
  Answer - Tips for finding a good doctor for your parent.
2. How do we prevent drug interaction problems?
  Answer - Advice for how to avoid dangerous drug mixing.
3. How can I find agencies or companies that provide in-home care in my area?
  Answer - Tips for finding agencies that provide in-home caregivers to help your parent.
Monday April 07, 2008
1. The Adult Diaper Wars: A Call to Arms!
  Blog Post - A Canadian government official's threat to wear diapers triggers open talk of how to keep seniors who wear diapers comfortable and healthy. 9 Comments
2. How can I ensure my mother's getting good medical care?
  Community Post - A good friend's mom is deteriorating, with asthma, dementia, and a few other things. My friend wants to chat with her mom's doctor, or even go to an appointment with her, to get the doc's ideas on what's going on. Her mom says it's private...
Monday March 31, 2008
1. Wii Senior Sports Craze May Get Your Parents Moving
  Blog Post - The Wii video game is a hit among seniors; a fun and gentle way to get them moving. 4 Comments
Tuesday March 25, 2008
1. How do I talk to my father about the mess he makes in the bathroom when he urinates?
  Answer - How to talk to your father about messy urination. 2 Comments
Monday March 24, 2008
1. When You Can't Check in With Your Parents, Cops (Often) Can
  Blog Post - Numerous services will check in on your parent when you can't. Find them by searching "senior check-in" and your parents' town. 1 Comment
2. How do I get help, such as someone to assist with housework, for a relative undergoing cancer treatment that also lives alone?
  Answer - How to find in-home help for a sick relative. 1 Comment
3. What would be a reasonable bonus to pay a home health care worker who has taken care of an ill parent after that parent has passed away?
  Answer - What's a reasonable bonus for a home health worker. 1 Comment
4. My father needs thickened foods - where can I find recipes?
  Answer - How to find recipes for thickened foods.
Monday March 17, 2008
1. Falling: A Deadly Problem Helped by Prevention
  Blog Post - Falls are a deadly problem that can be helped through prevention. 2 Comments
Saturday March 08, 2008
1. Aging Parents and Dental Care: A Life-and-Death Issue
  Blog Post - Regular dental care for your parents can be a matter of life and death. 2 Comments
Monday February 25, 2008
1. Which personal alert devices would be best for my father?
  Answer - See the Caring.com Buying Guide to learn more about personal alert or emergency response systems.

Kate Rauch

Caring.com senior editor

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