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Heart & Stroke Support Group

Caring for a loved one with a heart condition or who's suffered a stroke? Get tips, advice, and support in this online support group for heart and stroke caregiving concerns.

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ttheriot said...

2 days ago

My husband just recently had his first stroke on June 24th of this year, unfortunately, it was a massive stroke on the left side of his brain. It of course affected his right side. He has been to several hospitals over the course of the last 4 months. He is now going to outpatient rehab, and was doing well, up until last week when he began having problems with his stomach, first it began where he was having issues having a bowel movement, then problems having a bowel movement frequently, and now back to being constipated. It seems to hurt him when he is having one. Has anyone else experienced this with their spouse? My husband is 48 years old, and was experiencing stroke symptoms before having the stroke, however, he was very active before hand.

Sheila1944 said...

2 days ago

joanwagner said...

4 days ago

my husband who had a serious stroke 2 years ago is getting nasty with me. I know that I should not take it to heart as I do, but we had such a great marriage for almost 60 years. He is 84 and I am 78. I'm in a lot of pain

4 days ago

Sheila1944 said...

4 days ago

Nyla72 said...

about 1 month ago

I'm new to this. I'm 44 yo & my husband is 51. He will be coming home in 2 days. He had a minor(?!) stroke. His left side is weak and he can't walk or make a fist

emptynest said...

about 1 month ago

Sheila1944 said...

about 1 month ago

Nyla72 said...

about 1 month ago

My 51 yo husband has had a stroke. He will be coming home in 2 days. They still don't know what caused it and I'm terrified it will happen again. We also have a dog and I have to work. I don't know how to keep him safe

Nyla72 said...

about 1 month ago

October said...

about 1 month ago

saraab15 said...

2 months ago

My mom, age 73, had a thalamic stroke in May 2017. She is a musician and directs many musicals throughout the year and is the music director in a church. She cares for our 5 year old son with autism and has always had a go-go-go personality. Since her stroke she has become depressed and withdrawn which we expected. We got her on an antidepressant and into therapy but the antidepressant isn't working how she/we hoped and she's trying others. The biggest problem has been driving as her doctor has not released her to drive yet. She has a neuropsych exam next week which will help her neurologist determine if she's safe to drive. With her busy lifestyle this has been the source of much depression and tears and she now has said that if her doctor tells her she can't drive "she's done." She confirms that this means she's going to kill herself. Of course this is beyond frightening for our family and she seems to be void of emotion when she talks about it (maybe thalamic-related, I don't know). I am a mental health provider so have done my own assessment for ideation and immediacy and feel that she is safe with what we have in place for now (support, people around her, grandchildren). The problem will come in if she is told she can't drive which will be in the next month or so. I know how to handle if someone is suicidal, but I don't know how to handle it coming from my mom. We are very close and as the person who spends the most time with her (we live in the downstairs of her home so she can be with our son when he has therapy in our home). Has anyone else been through suicidality after a stroke? She has no physical issues or pain and gets around fine. We are feeling quite helpless.

3 months ago

So confused! So it's been 2 and 1/2 years since my husbands stroke and it's definitely changed our lives. He is 43 and I'm 41, our marriage isn't the same,nor is he the same , there's no affection, love making, nothing, I've taken on the roll as the caregiver and I'm no longer the wife. Physically he's fine, but it has affected him mentally. I'm so confused, do I hang in there and hope for things to change, and keep fighting or is this what I have to deal with for the rest of my life, I do everything, and I'm stressed to my max, very frustrated, mad, angry, and sad all at the same time, what do I do?

Elenta said...

about 1 month ago

Nyla72 said...

about 1 month ago

Cubbie said...

3 months ago

What can I do about my dad's long term care if he cannot be taken care of at home and the rehab center is sending him home anyway? My father had a stroke and is currently in acute rehab. My mother is not well, caring for him in their home is not an option. A week ago we were told he would be moved to a long term care facility. This week they told us he'd be able to come home in 2 weeks time. Nothing has changed over the last week, other than the insurance company declined our request for long term care.

Sheila1944 said...

3 months ago

Kevin45 said...

3 months ago

Cnguyen17 said...

3 months ago

My sister and I are fighting because I feel that this stroke not only has changed my mom's life but has affected my life and I feel selfish wanting have my life back but I do love my mom I do want to care and I feel guilty to wanting my life back

3 months ago

Sheila1944 said...

3 months ago

3 months ago

Is there a day care available for post stroke patients

emptynest said...

3 months ago

3 months ago

I will be 80 in July and I am asking questions about stroke because I had a stroke 5 years ago. I live at home and am doing very well My husband is 87 and he has Sundowners dementia. We have wonderful children and nighttime sitter. So I!m just asking for myself.

3 months ago

October said...

about 1 month ago

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