What can be done to encourage my mother to walk again after a broken hip?
My mother (who is 81 years old) broke her hip two months ago and fractured her right hip. She underwent surgery and the fracture appears to be healing well. Due to the fall the rehabilitation facility keeps her in a wheelchair during the day and they do not allow her stand (except in physical therapy)and discourage her from going to the bathroom as she is wearing a diaper.
She now appears to be afraid to walk as she thinks if she stands up she will fall.
She is also unhappy with the food she is being given-however, she is now beginning to eat better with both an appetite stimulant and food I bring her.
Perhaps you can request that your mother's PT start working with her on increasing her mobility and even training the family or staff to walk with her. The family can participate in goal setting, and request that goals be directed towards fall prevention, independence in toileting etc. Clearly your mother has a fall risk as she has already fallen and treatment should be directed towards identifying the factors that lead to her fall and educating her about strategies to help her walk after a broken hip. Also she should be strengthening her legs and walking as much as is safe.
Will the Physical Therapist train you in how to help her stand and walk? Usually, at this stage, a family member can help. The rehab facility should be allowing her to ring for them to take her to the bathroom, rather than making her soil a diaper. Start asking the facility questions like these, so they know you are concerned and want your mother to improve.
Have your mother's surgeon talk to the rehab facility. She needs to walk! They should not be encouraging her to spend all of her time in a wheelchair; no wonder the poor thing is afraid to walk. As others have replied, an aide should be able to walk with your mother to the toilet. using a gait belt, if needed.