Tonight we brought our neighbor to assisted living. We are her POA and have had the help of her estranged daughter, but despite all the promises and reassurances from the staff at the facility we failed to even get her inside. This is the 3rd facility we have tried. She was furious and immediately walked out and sat in the car. We tried for three hours, but at that point the staff said they didn't want her because she would just end up walking out again. I'm so frustrated and lost on what to do....it's midnight now and she is back home with most of her personal belongings sitting at the assisted living facility. She does not take her medicine (forgets, takes wrong dosage, doesn't want to take it), she has never cooked for her self (always eats out), but no longer has a car to do so. We have had someone come by the house, which worked for a while but now she doesn't open the door. Her home is filled with mice poop, her toilet is constantly running. Depending on the day, she'll walk across the street to our house 5-6 times a day or call angry and mad with various demented things (someone stole her tv, she lost her keys, etc) We care deeply, but we are not professional care givers. We've turned to professionals and feel completely let down. It is a constant worry, a constant battle, and fearful of her ever changing personality. What do we do next?! She refuses home care and she refuses assistant living, but left alone she becomes agitated and angry.