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How Can I Best Clean My Wheelchair Bound Mother After She Soils Herself?

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I hope you will be able to care for your mother at home for your sake.Your dear mother would be fine either way with a caring daughter like you. When See also:
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you are dealing with incontinence for the wheelchair bound, there are so many factors to consider for your mother's safety and cleanliness. Also for your own health and the safety of your helpers.

You should get a consultation from a nurse. Best would be a Geriatric Care Manager who is also an RN. You need a person to come to the house, consider the factors of your mother's inability to control her feet, her weight, how the transfer should work, and to suggest good products for her skin.

If she thinks you can keep your mother at home, the consultant should work out a system and teach you and your caregivers how to care for your mother.

You could check www.caremanger.org to find a caremanager in your area. If there is no one close, you could call the Area Agency or Aging or the county aging offices or even a licensed homehealth agency. Just make sure that the person you hire for this consultation has real nursing skills to bring comfort and ease to you and your mother.

Another point to consider is whether two caregivers are enough to help you. It can be very difficult to get a person up as much as is needed. The body gets tired and accidents happen. A bedridden or wheelchair bound loved one needs to be helped to move quite often so that the skin does not get pressure sores.

All of these issues can be worked out. But you do need expert help.(in person)


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LRstanton answered...

I understand your situation. My mom has a degenerative neurological condition with severe cognitive impairment and is about 95% wheelchair bound. When she soils, it can be difficult. I found two things help. First, look on e-bay or on-line for a company called "MEDICALFORYOU". I purchased a wheelchair with a potty-seat cutout that rolls over the top of a standard toilet. I use this to position my mom over the toilet to wash her after she has soiled, always wiping front to back. Sometimes I have to do the front first, then have her bend forward and do the back. I use disposable wipes first, then finish up with a warm wet washcloth. Then I dry the area with a small hand towel. I can do this all by myself. The rolling chair is a big help. I paid about $175.00 for the chair.

Otherwise, you can have her lie down on the bed with one of those blue disposable waterproof pads underneath her. Roll her to one side and clean her. Lay a fresh pad down where she was lying if the first pad is soiled, then roll her the opposite way onto her side and clean her. This might take two people.

You are a wonderful person, just remember you do not have to be perfect all the time. Do what you can, and it will be okay!


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