My father made my sisters believe I was untrustworthy, in his confusion and dealing with bipolar disorder and alzheimers, he let them take over power of attorney and made them executor of his will, he tells me that he let one sister go to Hawaii with his money, and I asked him why because I had been living with them for years taking care of them and never took a dime or asked for any. I even bought their groceries because they acted like they were so poor, even though I knew their assets and finances, I'm aware that anything is possible, one of them could have ended up having a catastrophic illness that would have eaten up all their money within months. When it looked as if dad was trying to control his kids by using "our inheritance' as a scare tactic, then things got way worse. He made them beleive that I was stealing from him, that I was trying to poison him, all kinds of insane accusations.
My sisters took advantage of this, instead of being adults and knowing this was part of his disease, how he was abusive to me and practically killing my mother and I, they took over and now they are spending his money, mom died without me, all she ever wanted was me to be by her side when she died, they denied me even that by their gossip and lies, making both parents believe I was some kind of monster, agreeing with dad's delusions and using them to get rid of me. Things are not as cut and dry as they seem. If nobody else were there to see the good work I was doing, the horrible abuse I was taking, and then my sister or a brother would have gotten paranod and wrote a note like the one above, from anonymous, not saying this is anything like your situation but if you aren't there to know exactly what's going on with your brother, is he caring for your parents? Do you know for a fact that he might do this type of thing?or is a paranoid parent saying things to get you upset and believe he might do something like that? Be sure to talk to him because elderly parents with an organic brain disorder can make a good person out to be a thief, my father always projected his mean thoughts, instead of saying he thinks this or that, he would say that I said this or that, when he knew it was too mean for him to say himself. He's always been a bit of a coward and never confronted anyone, always left that to me and my mother. Or left notes and disappeared. Now he has our whole family alienated from me, They don't know me, my sister makes things up, no matter what I do or say she can find a way to put a disgusting spin on it , to make people thing that's what I really meant. People are crazy and can be the biggest slime balls in the world, so be sure who is telling the truth, what is really going on before you accuse anyone or start hating someone without asking them about anything. Don't lose the use of communicating. Keep talking, nobody asked me anything, and when I felt something was wrong, I called everyone in my family and everyone said, "Oh nothing's wrong' you must be getting paranoid" yet when I came back to take care of mom, everything I had moved into the house was thrown out, my horses that I paid for were given away and sold but nobody knows who to. I can't get anything back and the fact that they said nothing was going on is a testimony that they were aware they were doing wrong and doing it all behind my back, Be careful, get in there and find out the facts.