"Leisureville" Paints Retirement Community Seniors as 24-Hour Party People
For many of us, when we think about helping our parents plan for retirement, the big concern -- and sometimes dilemma -- is keeping them nearby. Should we invite them to move in with us or to move to a retirement community near where we live? What if their need for our time and attention becomes too much for us -- the sandwich generation dilemma?
Leisureville, a new book on the world's largest retirement community, raises an entirely different -- and fascinating -- question: What if our parents' own retirement fantasy involves escaping from us, and our children, entirely?
The Villages -- the Florida retirement utopia on which author Andrew D. Blechman casts a not-so-favorable-eye -- offers its residents just this opportunity. The 20,000-acre gated community -- complete with numerous golf courses, its own newspaper and radio station, and multiple prefab downtowns -- is off limits to anyone under 55.
To hear Blechman tell it, left to their own devices, the senior set are 24-hour party people, living on Viagra, pot, and pepperoni (no wonder The Villages places strict limits on visits from children).
Blechman isn't the only reporter to describe a recent residency in a retirement community. If the antics of the Leisureville set leave you gasping for breath, check out A Place Called Canterbury, New York Times reporter Dudley Clendinen's graceful first-person portrait of the more sedate, but no less entertaining, retirement home in which his mother spent her final years. (For more about Clendinen, see his interview on Caring.com).
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