Convincing a driver with impaired cognition to give up the keys doesn't usually happen in just one conversation. Be prepared to build on small steps. Here are five things drivers with mild dementia often do on their own to adapt to changes such as memory loss and reaction time:
They stop driving at night.
They avoid busy highways.
They no longer take long road trips, sticking only to familiar routes.
They stop driving in city traffic.
They insist on having the radio or music off in the car, to maintain concentration.
If you notice these inclinations, support them. Your loved one may be more open to your efforts to line up rides with friends, bus services, taxis, or community transportation. That can help him or her transition to using such alternatives more often when it becomes absolutely necessary.