How can you keep your loved one comfortable once he or she is largely bedridden and minimally communicative? Try these ideas:
1. Warmth. Keeping the person you're caring for warm can be a loving part of comfort care, especially for those who are bedridden and therefore face circulatory problems. Make sure socks, blankets, shawls, and lap robes (in a chair or wheelchair) are in handy supply.
2. Familiarity. If socks and shawls are favorite old objects, their familiar texture, sight, or smell may offer added comfort and reassurance.
3. Touch. Holding hands, offering hugs, or simply caressing the face or a shoulder all communicate affection and promote healing.
4. Sound. Music, speech, birdsong, and other calming background noise are all positive sounds. Minimize blaring TV.
5. Painlessness. Make sure your loved one's pain is well managed. Work with a doctor to monitor pain and administer medication, as needed. Watch for pressure sores, a common hidden cause of discomfort for someone who's bed- or chair-bound.