Participation Makes Bath Time More Positive

When your parent can no longer bathe without help, his self-esteem can take a big hit. But even small gestures on your part can make a big difference in how he feels. Give your parent as much of a sense of control and independence as he can handle, even if it's nominal. Handing your parent a washcloth, a bar of soap, or an empty plastic cup for rinsing can help him feel more engaged and capable, even if he has Alzheimer's or dementia. Ask your parent to pitch in -- soaping, scrubbing, or rinsing. Being involved keeps his hands and mind occupied, offers a distraction, and cultivates a nurturing sense of autonomy.