Don't Be Afraid to "Be Nosy" About a Parent's Dementia

Wondering if your parent really has Alzheimer's? Talk to as many different people who know her as you can -- neighbors, club friends, her dentist, church members -- to ask if they've noticed any signs. This can be especially enlightening if you live out of town. Most friends are glad, possibly even relieved, to share what they know, so don't worry that you're being intrusive.