Evaluate immediate care needs and living situation.

How to figure out what your loved one with Alzheimers' needs first
Some people with early dementia can live independently for months or years, but all will eventually need help. A professional assessment is the best way to determine the stage of the disease, what to expect, and what's needed to improve life for all of you, both now and in the future.

Two ways to get this invaluable help:

1. Hire a geriatric care manager (or GCM, a specialist in assessing an elder's needs, arranging help, and monitoring the situation as needed). GCMs charge about $50 to $200 an hour, depending on where you live, or a flat fee for an initial assessment.
2. Ask your area agency on aging about free or low-cost assessments (by social workers, care consultants, and other professionals who provide services similar to those given by GCMs).

In both cases, these professionals can show you what's needed in your specific situation: home safety modifications, memory support, personal care, and more. They can also refer you to medical specialists, eldercare attorneys, transportation and housing options, and other resources.

Find your area agency on aging.

Find a geriatric care manager.