Sister' chemo 4 week's left
Hello everyone, well the time is flying and my sister is getting closer to having her breast removed, sometime's it seem's like it was just yesterday that we received the news and 5 month's later is here.She has 4 more week's of chemo left which she has handled with great courage and determination(i think i may have spelled that wrong lol), anyway all her lab work has come back good, weight is good as is her bp. She does well in the morning's but by noon she lay's down for a while, here lately when she get's the two unit's of chemo she is completly wiped out , oh and she eat's very well that part has'nt changed lol.A few week's ago we had some friend's just drop by to see her and she was laying down, i told them this and they said well wake her she can lay back down when we leave, needless to say i lost my temper and laid out AGAIN the rule's so to speak, 1. call frist to make sure she up for company,2. you do not tell me how to handle my sister in fact you do not tell me what to do in my home PERIOD,3. if you were any kind of friend as you claim to be you would be doing more than just dropping by to check on her, do you know what a phone is? Along with a few other word's i do not use in general, i blasted them up one side and down the other. They said i was being rude? well let's see, i ask them have you ever just once called to see if she needed anything, have you offered to come over and give me alittle time for myself? ahh NO you have not, so do not even try and put this back in my lap, i told them they were a sorry excuse of what they call a friend.I truly understand some people can't handle thing's like this, they don't know what to say or do but to not even try and make an efford is not right. When she found out about the cancer she ask me would i call our friend's and let them know and i did, including the one's that just popped in for a visit. When they were frist told they said we are here for you and yet it took 4 month's see how thing's were going.I work 7 day's and 10 hour day's, we have a very dear friend who come's over daily and stay's with my sister to keep her company and on a bad day help when needed.My sis still does what she can light work , but i told her do not over do it because it seem's to take longer for her to get some of her strengh back, but all in all she is doing very well and i tell her that everyday.Well i guess i will close for now time for work thank you all for letting me vent( it's been a while). God bless you all, you are alway's in my thought and prayer's. Sincerely, Angel.