How Do I Juggle them??
So, my Nana and my Mom's side, had pancreatic cancer back in 06, she survived, got cancer again,survived, she's in hospice care, and has been on hospice for about 2 years now off and on, she's in the hospital due to diabetic shock after having her pancreas removed... her health just keeps going down, the doctors don't pay attention to what medications shes on, they're very very bad about that... at the same time, my Grandpa on my Dad's side was diagnosed with final stage lung cancer just 3 days ago, and he was given 1 - 6 months... he's in the hospital right now but my aunt is pushing for in-home/facility hospice care, not the hospital. I'm not sure exactly how to balance both of them out between hospital visits/ emotionally- right now I'm more worried for my Grandpa only because he's been givin a 'time', my Nana was too at one point a long time ago and she proved the doctors wrong- and she keeps doing so.. but the thought of losing both of them in short periods of time, and possible my papa too.... I can't even GRASP that mentally... that just all seems like way too much to take on... What can I do? Is there anything I CAN do? Any suggestions?