My husband was a vibrant, hardworking man. He loved life, people and above his family. It started with a back pain and no one could define the cause. a Cat scan was given their finding, a large tumor on his right kidney. The surgery was scheduled two months later and he had started loosing weight.Surgery was done, removal of kidney and a very large tumor. We thought that this was the end of cancer. There were lesions discovered in the lungs and liver. They were never diagnosed as Cancer, he remained very ill, loosing weight, no income, since he was self employed. Some family members were not supportive, because they did not believe us that we did not know.Constant office and hospital vistis. My husband died in the summer, mainly of a broken heart from his family and poor diagnosis from his physician. Now I am a grieving widow, who misses her soulmate and wonder, why he could not have helped.