about 2 years ago
Carl an christine 1939
said...
I need prayer coping with losing Dad an Mom.
I feel so lost with out them. Tho mom has just passed away. They were my best friends an i loved them so. I did everything i could do to help them. I know its normal to grieve. I just feel so lost right now. My heart is broke. This is a pic of my mother. God bless you all that has a loss right now. pray for me. My mother suffered with a stroke i guess i still have that on my mind an my dad. watching them die was hard. I know jesus will help me tho. God bless you all on here.
wayne
I am so sorry to here of your loss, today is the one year anniversary we lost our beloved mother. She was 45 years old, a wonderful loving person. I know exactly how you feel, I was so lost when we lost her, it was a very hard time and everyday is a challenge ESPECIALLLY today. Keep your faith, if your parents were ill remember that their suffering has ended and they are in a better place. I know that when we lost our mom that was the last thing we wanted anyone to tell us. We just wanted her back with us and still do, but we remember how somedays she was sick and we love her so much we never wanted to see her suffer so much. As hard as it is, we have to not let go but remember that their passing is what was best for them no matter how much it breaks us.
My prayers are with you, be strong and remember the wonderful times you had with them. This is what will keep you going, and know that they may not be with you physically but when you are doing something or remembering something they are always with you. They will always be standing beside you, guiding you, and loving you. God Bless you and your family.
I am so sorry to here of your loss, today is the one year anniversary we lost our beloved mother. She was 45 years old, a wonderful loving person. I know exactly how you feel, I was so lost when we lost her, it was a very hard time and everyday is a challenge ESPECIALLLY today. Keep your faith, if your parents were ill remember that their suffering has ended and they are in a better place. I know that when we lost our mom that was the last thing we wanted anyone to tell us. We just wanted her back with us and still do, but we remember how somedays she was sick and we love her so much we never wanted to see her suffer so much. As hard as it is, we have to not let go but remember that their passing is what was best for them no matter how much it breaks us.
My prayers are with you, be strong and remember the wonderful times you had with them. This is what will keep you going, and know that they may not be with you physically but when you are doing something or remembering something they are always with you. They will always be standing beside you, guiding you, and loving you. God Bless you and your family.
I friend of mine's dad died last year and she said, "I am an orphan." I think no matter how old we are, we still look to our parents as part of who we are. When they're gone, there's some soul searching to be done. I'm wishing you the very best as you grieve, Wayne. I know it isn't easy. We're here for you, though.
I friend of mine's dad died last year and she said, "I am an orphan." I think no matter how old we are, we still look to our parents as part of who we are. When they're gone, there's some soul searching to be done. I'm wishing you the very best as you grieve, Wayne. I know it isn't easy. We're here for you, though.
I'm sorry for your loss. I know what you feel. I to have lost my father 2 years ago Sept.2007 I was lost and felt alone. But I talk with my father all the time @ his grave I cry then I smile to know he's not suffering any more. He is at peace now with his mother and father. my grandparents and my son and sister. Time will heal our heart. We will not forget them they will always be with us in our hearts. My god be with you and your family. You are in my prayers.
I'm sorry for your loss. I know what you feel. I to have lost my father 2 years ago Sept.2007 I was lost and felt alone. But I talk with my father all the time @ his grave I cry then I smile to know he's not suffering any more. He is at peace now with his mother and father. my grandparents and my son and sister. Time will heal our heart. We will not forget them they will always be with us in our hearts. My god be with you and your family. You are in my prayers.
Thanks missy your a good person. god bless you. wayne
Thanks missy your a good person. god bless you. wayne
Your the best Missy. Fr wayne
Your the best Missy. Fr wayne
Thank you minnie. I hope you do ok also. fr wayne
Thank you minnie. I hope you do ok also. fr wayne
HELLO WAYNE, I WANT SAY HOW SORRY I AM FOR YOUR LOSES.YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND NOW IN MY PRAYERS.I MYSELF JUST LOST MY DAD.HE HAS 5 GIRLS AND I WAS DADDYS BABY GIRL.I STAYED WITH HIM FOR 23 HOURS A DAY FOR 17DAYS.I WAS A WALKING ZOMBIE, I WENT DAYS WITHOUT SLEEPING AND IF I DID SLEEP IT WOULD BE IN HIS HOSPITAL ROOM WITH MY FAMILY THERE. I DID NOT WANT TO MISS A THING.I WAS THERE TO HOLD HIS HAND EVER MINUTE OF THE DAYS.MY DAD WAS MY ROCK MY HERO MY LIFE .AND THE DAY I KNEW HE WAS LEAVING US I JUMPED IN BED WITH HIM. I LAYED THERE AND REASSURE HIM THAT MY SISTERS AND I WOULD BE OK. TOLD HIM I LOVED HIM LIKE CRAZY .REMINDED HIM WHAT GREAT DAD HE WAS. THE HARDEST THING I HAD TO SAY WAS, DADDY ITS OK YOU CAN GO. BROKE MY HEART CAUSE 24 MINUTES LATER HE TOOK HIS LAST BREATH.I WAS HOLDING HIM TIGHT. I NEW THAT MINUTE HE WAS GONE .SO BROKEN HEARTED!
HELLO WAYNE, I WANT SAY HOW SORRY I AM FOR YOUR LOSES.YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND NOW IN MY PRAYERS.I MYSELF JUST LOST MY DAD.HE HAS 5 GIRLS AND I WAS DADDYS BABY GIRL.I STAYED WITH HIM FOR 23 HOURS A DAY FOR 17DAYS.I WAS A WALKING ZOMBIE, I WENT DAYS WITHOUT SLEEPING AND IF I DID SLEEP IT WOULD BE IN HIS HOSPITAL ROOM WITH MY FAMILY THERE. I DID NOT WANT TO MISS A THING.I WAS THERE TO HOLD HIS HAND EVER MINUTE OF THE DAYS.MY DAD WAS MY ROCK MY HERO MY LIFE .AND THE DAY I KNEW HE WAS LEAVING US I JUMPED IN BED WITH HIM. I LAYED THERE AND REASSURE HIM THAT MY SISTERS AND I WOULD BE OK. TOLD HIM I LOVED HIM LIKE CRAZY .REMINDED HIM WHAT GREAT DAD HE WAS. THE HARDEST THING I HAD TO SAY WAS, DADDY ITS OK YOU CAN GO. BROKE MY HEART CAUSE 24 MINUTES LATER HE TOOK HIS LAST BREATH.I WAS HOLDING HIM TIGHT. I NEW THAT MINUTE HE WAS GONE .SO BROKEN HEARTED!
Bugslife 33 Thanks for commenting. Oh god i felt the same way. yeah my heart is broke. May god bless you always. Im sorry for you also.I did not sleep when i was with mom either.
Fr wayne
Bugslife 33 Thanks for commenting. Oh god i felt the same way. yeah my heart is broke. May god bless you always. Im sorry for you also.I did not sleep when i was with mom either.
Fr wayne
i am sending you a prayer and a hug.
My Aunt that has been in assisted living facilities for four years and for the past 6 months lived with me here on hospice just passed away last week. She broke her hip in feb, abd was doing well in rehap..(she was 89) but she just wanted to "go with Jesus" and everyday asked me when he was coming. It just broke my heart. Well Jesus came last wednesday during easter week.. which the priest said was one of the most special times to pass..along with Jesus. Well I thought I could skip the grieving process since I have been grieving for years for her. I cant. The funeral was just yesterday, and the reality hit me today..last week it was a relief, but now I am lost. I was her caretaker for all the years while in assisted living..then here at home.. and now she is gone and I am lost. I know I have to get back to something of my former self..I feel like I have been grieving her last few years watching her grow weeker,,batteling my own depression and money worries and now my grief starts all over again. I made it through the week barely making plans and arrangements..till I collapsed made it through the funeral then collapsed with horrible nightmares that she wasn't really dead and we buried her..now today I have so much to do but I am still tired and emotionally all over the place.. Please send me a hug cause I really need now!
Thank you mouse
i am sending you a prayer and a hug.
My Aunt that has been in assisted living facilities for four years and for the past 6 months lived with me here on hospice just passed away last week. She broke her hip in feb, abd was doing well in rehap..(she was 89) but she just wanted to "go with Jesus" and everyday asked me when he was coming. It just broke my heart. Well Jesus came last wednesday during easter week.. which the priest said was one of the most special times to pass..along with Jesus. Well I thought I could skip the grieving process since I have been grieving for years for her. I cant. The funeral was just yesterday, and the reality hit me today..last week it was a relief, but now I am lost. I was her caretaker for all the years while in assisted living..then here at home.. and now she is gone and I am lost. I know I have to get back to something of my former self..I feel like I have been grieving her last few years watching her grow weeker,,batteling my own depression and money worries and now my grief starts all over again. I made it through the week barely making plans and arrangements..till I collapsed made it through the funeral then collapsed with horrible nightmares that she wasn't really dead and we buried her..now today I have so much to do but I am still tired and emotionally all over the place.. Please send me a hug cause I really need now!
Thank you mouse
I just lost a aunt a few weeks ago also. You will be ok i promise. God bless always. Wayne.
I just lost a aunt a few weeks ago also. You will be ok i promise. God bless always. Wayne.
I am so sorry of your loss's, i feel the pain, as i just lost my dad 2 months ago today, and my mom is now in icu at our local hospital, this is all so hard to handle, being so close in time, there are times, i literally feel numb, and cannot function, but somehow i pull through, it may take me a day or so, but i know it will be along time before i can function half way normal again, please know you are in my prayers, i truly know how you feel..and don't ever forget, they did not leave you..you may not see them, but they are here in spirit, and they are watching over you, my faith in this, helps me more than anything, bless you..from the bottom of my heart
Sandy~
I am so sorry of your loss's, i feel the pain, as i just lost my dad 2 months ago today, and my mom is now in icu at our local hospital, this is all so hard to handle, being so close in time, there are times, i literally feel numb, and cannot function, but somehow i pull through, it may take me a day or so, but i know it will be along time before i can function half way normal again, please know you are in my prayers, i truly know how you feel..and don't ever forget, they did not leave you..you may not see them, but they are here in spirit, and they are watching over you, my faith in this, helps me more than anything, bless you..from the bottom of my heart
Sandy~
Thank you sandy.God bless you always fr wayne
Thank you sandy.God bless you always fr wayne
Mom i love you daddy take care of mom. you said before you died do the best you can im doing that. I love you. Thanks to everyone who has posted here please keep praying for me as im having a hard time. God bless you all. To mom an dad fr your Son wayne.
Mom i love you daddy take care of mom. you said before you died do the best you can im doing that. I love you. Thanks to everyone who has posted here please keep praying for me as im having a hard time. God bless you all. To mom an dad fr your Son wayne.
Happy Mothers day Mom. I love you fr your son wayne. Best mother in the world.
Happy Mothers day Mom. I love you fr your son wayne. Best mother in the world.
I am deeply sorry for your losses. I have lost both of my parents, as well as my husband. My prayers are with you that you may grieve and eventually heal your deep wounds. Don't let others tell you how to grieve; we are all different.I shall add you to my prayer list. May God bless you and comfort you-
I am deeply sorry for your losses. I have lost both of my parents, as well as my husband. My prayers are with you that you may grieve and eventually heal your deep wounds. Don't let others tell you how to grieve; we are all different.I shall add you to my prayer list. May God bless you and comfort you-
Hey Wayne,
Hugs and prayers to you. The community here at caring.com is great. Everyone is very compassionate. Also look at this site: www.mentalhelp.net There is another community there that you can post on and talk to more people for support. When I was having a hard time about something in my life I found that site. The people there were very kind and supportive to me. The community here at caring.com is great too.
Take care of yourself- Frances
Hey Wayne,
Hugs and prayers to you. The community here at caring.com is great. Everyone is very compassionate. Also look at this site: www.mentalhelp.net There is another community there that you can post on and talk to more people for support. When I was having a hard time about something in my life I found that site. The people there were very kind and supportive to me. The community here at caring.com is great too.
Take care of yourself- Frances
Be thankful and rejoice that you could be there to care for them in thier time of need. Blessings, my friend.
Be thankful and rejoice that you could be there to care for them in thier time of need. Blessings, my friend.
Hugs to everybody!We all lost our parents.My siblings and I lost them to cancer mama first then papa.We miss them even after so many years we were close kit family.But it helps to have beautiful memories and friends,they are great comports.We have to remember our love one are in a place with out suffering and pain.That thought is the best thing that comport me most.
Hugs to everybody!We all lost our parents.My siblings and I lost them to cancer mama first then papa.We miss them even after so many years we were close kit family.But it helps to have beautiful memories and friends,they are great comports.We have to remember our love one are in a place with out suffering and pain.That thought is the best thing that comport me most.
Thank you kidme56 God bless you.Yes im glad they are not suffering now. Thanks for the words. May the lord be with you.
Thank you kidme56 God bless you.Yes im glad they are not suffering now. Thanks for the words. May the lord be with you.
Hey so sorry about your mom and dad, my story is a little different but in a nutshell my dad and brother died last year a few months apart. Now even tho I didn't get along with them most of the time, I find my self lost and feeling so alone.
The fact that you had the relationship you had is a blessing. Focus on that and know that they are in a much much better place than this cold unfeeling world. Hope you feel better. I'll say a prayer.
Hey so sorry about your mom and dad, my story is a little different but in a nutshell my dad and brother died last year a few months apart. Now even tho I didn't get along with them most of the time, I find my self lost and feeling so alone.
The fact that you had the relationship you had is a blessing. Focus on that and know that they are in a much much better place than this cold unfeeling world. Hope you feel better. I'll say a prayer.
Rip in peace Mom an dad I love you . Still Missing you guys terribly. You will Forever be in my heart. From Your son.
Rip in peace Mom an dad I love you . Still Missing you guys terribly. You will Forever be in my heart. From Your son.
love and miss you Mom and Dad god bless everyone on here. Nov 10, 2011.
love and miss you Mom and Dad god bless everyone on here. Nov 10, 2011.