Why wouldn't a neurologist diagnose dementia or Alzheimer's?
You don’t say what your relationship is with this person, so I’ll take the liberty and assume it’s your husband.
These days many doctors will administer a “mini-mental” test to anyone over 75 as part of routine annual physicals. This test gives a preliminary indication of short-term memory loss. I assume that his doctor has already done so. Hopefully he has also undergone further testing to eliminate other conditions that mimic dementia, such as dehydration, low-grade infections, malnutrition and NPH, just to mention a few. NPH stands for Normal Pressure Hydrocephalus, which is an excess of fluid on the brain, which of course can affect a person’s thinking and behavior. Many of these are reversible if detected early. You might want to get a second opinion, preferably from a geriatrician.
If he does have dementia, there are medication that may help, however, there’s no such thing as a magic bullet: Aricept, Razadyne or Exelon, which are all in the same class: acetylcholinesterase inhibitors; either one of these three is often combined with Namenda. These medications work really well for some people, others find only moderate relief and for others, the side-effects are too severe.
With or without the medication, there are many strategies you can employ to ease your burden and help him have an easier life. Caring.com has many suggestions for you. You may also want to go on my website: www.alzatoz.com
By the way, referring to the therapist; he/she is right probably about half of the time. Every situation is unique: sometimes the family is the first to recognize problems; sometimes however, they are the last to notice, because the progression has been so gradual that they have simply readjusted themselves to the behavior.
I always advise people to get a second opinion so this is an option you might want to look into. Caring.com also has a Memory Clinic locator feature that will help you find a memory evaluation clinic in your area. I can hear the frustration in your email. Don't give up just yet. Not all specialists are created equal so if you are not satisfied with the response you have gotten so far don't hesitate to find another physician. Your local Alzheimer's Association can also be a resource for finding a specialist in your area that specializes in diagnosing dementia. Good luck!
Only 100 % diagnosis comes after death with autopsy of the brain. Pretty good testing and guesstimates provide darn close diagnosis. Neuropsychologists perform testing ~ no pokes or prods, but thorough mental testing and can give a pretty sure diagnosis. Note that Psychologists are not able to write prescriptions but work closely with either your family M.D. or a Psychiatrist who will do the prescribing for you. Ms. Lokvig's answer is very appropriate. I understand your frustration regarding the meds, that with no appropriate diagnosis the insurance companies will not approve. I agree, get a second opinion. God Bless you as you deal with much.
