Question
Why does my oldest sister get automatic power of attorney?
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Answer
Expert Barbara Repa, a Caring.com senior editor, is an attorney, a journalist specializing in aging issues, and the author of WillMaker, software enabling consumers to write their own wills, health care directives, powers of attorney, and final arrangements.
She doesn't.
The person who makes a power of attorney to oversee financial or medical matters is free to name anyone he or she chooses. While some people assume that the oldest child would be the logical choice, that person may not have the temperament, time, or patience needed for the job.
It is also possible to name more than one person to serve as attorney-in-fact in a power of attorney document, which can help keep the peace in some family situations. This arrangement can be dicey, however, if those appointed tend to disagree, since they all must agree on and approve every action taken.
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