Are my husband and eligible to live in the Veterans Home?
If your husband served on active duty during wartime, both of you may be eligible for admmission to a State VA Home. The NJ Veterans Memorial Homes (Vineland, Menlo Park and Paramus) have a 2 year NJ residency requirement prior to admission. There is usually about a 6 month waiting list for each of these homes. It may be longer for a spouse to join the veteran. (For a surviving spouse, it can run at least a year.) Due to your extenuating circumstances, I suggest you call the Admissions Director at Vineland and explain the situation to find out if you are eligible and, if so, how long is the waiting list.
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