My mother is having very real memory problems. I called the doctor's office made an appointment and talked with them asking that they do some testing. I took Mom for the appointment (however she did not want to go) and they did not do any testing. I am very concerned and do not know how to get her back to the doctor again. She is 82 and extremely healthy, no regular medications just aspirin and vitamins. How do I get her tested, any good advice?
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Hi
Contact your local state, county or hospital eldercare agency and ask for a referral to a social worker. I did this, and they sent someone to the house to evaluate both the home environment and my mother's state of mind, including giving her the simple mental status tests they usually do. (mini mental status examination)
This was the beginning of a beautiful and VERY helpful relationship. I FINALLY had someone on my side (who also happened to be on my mother's side!)
START HERE, your social worker will reassure your mom and hold hands with each of you as you navigate your way through this scary process... TOGETHER.
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