My brother is abusing his POA - can we take it away?
It is possible to take the power of attorney away from a sibling if you have proof that he misused funds. Since your mother passed away, he no longer has the authority to act. You may need to seek the advice of an elder law attorney who can help you get a court order stopping your brother from any further misuse of your mother's funds. That's what's called a "civil" action.
In addition, if there is indeed proof that your brother stole funds that were your mother's and used them for himself while she was alive, he may be subject to criminal charges for elder financial abuse. If your county has an elder abuse hotline, that is a place to start. If not, you can contact your local district attorney's office. You will need specifics to make a report: dates, which accounts were misused, your brother's identifying information, the names, account numbers and other ways for their investigator to check the account records, etc. It can be very difficult to report a sibling to the authorities, but it is the right thing to do. It is also necessary to stop him before things get worse. I encourage you to get help right away, both from the civil elder law attorney and by reporting the apparent crime to law enforcement.
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