How can we get mom to agree to move to an assisted living facility?

There can be no doubt that you are dealing with one of the more difficult decision that families of demented patients face sooner or later. There are many things you See also:
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See all 72 questions about Alzheimer's Moving and Housing and your father should consider before moving your mother to a memory care unit and we have included a few of them here. If your mother's condition has advanced to the stage where the caregiver can no longer provide enough support, "Assisted Living" may no longer be an option. Carefully consider the following and be sure your father is 100% on board with any decisions that are made. 1. Has your mother been formally evaluated? 2. How much conflict behavior is being exhibited and is she a danger to herself and others? Is her care more difficult at certain times of day/evening and should the caregiver's hours be increased or adjusted? 3. Does your father understand that he most likely will not be able to reside with your mother once she is moved? 4. Often times, moving a demented patient from familiar surroundings may accelerate their decline. If your mother is currently content and functional most of the time in her home and does have a good and trusted caregiver, you may choose to gradually implement a plan that best suits everyone.Consult her physician and perhaps a local Care Manager along with your father. Placement may be inevitable, but take time to consider all options. Find more information and resources through the Alzheimer’s Association.

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