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My mother lives in Michigan and she wants me to relocate back to Michigan because she has difficulty remembering things. She is a senior citizen and lives alone. There is no family member there to help take care of her. My aunt, who resides in Michigan as well, is older than she is. I can not afford the expense of relocating. Is there any financial help to relocate me where I could take care of her and my aunt, who is 14 years older than my mom, who is 68, and suffers from asthma and breathing problems? I would appreciate any resources someone may be able to direct me in.
— Caring.com Community Member, vgray
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Expert Joseph L. Matthews is a Caring.com senior editor, an attorney, and the author of Long-Term Care: How to Plan & Pay for It and Social Security, Medicare, & Government Pensions: Get the Most Out of Your Retirement & Medical Benefits.
There may not be any funds to pay for your relocation, but it's possible that you could get paid to take care of your mother, and maybe also your aunt, once you get to Michigan. If either your mother or aunt has low income and assets, they each might qualify for Medicaid, which provides in-home care. If so, in Michigan it's possible to have the state pay your mother (and aunt) directly for her in-home care. She can then use the money to pay you for taking care of her. This cash assistance is possible even if your mother has slightly too much income or assets to qualify for Medicaid.
The cash assistance works through a program called Cash and Counseling. It could directly pay your mother the same amount Medicaid would pay an aide from a home care agency. If she qualifies, your mother can spend these funds on anyone she chooses to take care of her. Your mother decides how much to pay per hour of care. Also, your mother can use some of the money to make home improvements for safety or comfort, or to buy personal care items. To find out more about these cash assistance programs, go to the page on this site called How to Get Paid for Being Your Parent's Caregiver.
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