I worry about my husband with Alzheimer's being alone while I'm at work but he refuses professional company, what should I do?
You have done an admirable job! Accolades to you for all the appropriate arrangements you've made. I would have suggested every one. I would not be overly concerned with his alone-time right now. Often, early onset AD folks are relieved to not be with people in the well-functioning world who have expectations that the patient knows he can not meet. When safety becomes an issue, that may be the time to insist on 'professional' companionship or a day program. Meanwhile, I would strongly recommend further conversations with friends and family members and urge them to visit more frequently. I would suggest offering some helpful hints for the best interaction with your hubby. For instance, DON'T QUESTION him about present day issues as that makes him feel as if he is being tested, instead reminisce with him about positive times from the past and ALWAYS INCLUDE HIM in conversation if more than one visitor is present.
I would not be overly concerned with his alone-time right now. Often, early onset AD folks are relieved to not be with people in the well-functioning world who have expectations that the patient knows he can not meet.
When safety becomes an issue, that may be the time to insist on 'professional' companionship or a day program. Meanwhile, I would strongly recommend further conversations with friends and family members and urge them to visit more frequently. I would suggest offering some helpful hints for the best interaction with your hubby. For instance, DON'T QUESTION him about present day issues as that makes him feel as if he is being tested, instead reminisce with him about positive times from the past and ALWAYS INCLUDE HIM in conversation if more than one visitor is present.
It sounds like Duke is a wonderful companion - how fortunate they are to have each other and both are so lucky to have you.
Please be sure to take care of yourself.
