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my husband doesnt understand severe fibromyalgia and how my body feels minute to minute as well as there is other conditions that are being dealt with , they are going to check for diabetes and an adrenaline deficiency aswell as a test on my pancreas...it has been a lving hell but i hold out for hope and a better day but after 8 years he's givien up and dont beleive me or is confused or is severely depressed because i cant make it out to do anything. On any good day i have to do housework what i can get done and trying to organize in our past 14 years we moved 9 times and i had to pack and unpack all of it each time and he does dishes, litter box and takes garbage out plays computer games and seps every waking moment when i can force mysellf to try to get things done i stay so busy and cant finish it and it puts ,me back down where i feel so horrible that i cant do anything.what can i do to get him to understand i'm holding on by a hair, our 1st 9 years we never even had a smal argument, then his 86 yr old father had alzheimers and lived with us and his father hated women me also but i lived withthe cursing and the embarassing moments etc and it tore us apart then even and then we moved to ohio because of his mother shes 81 and has alzheiemrs (dimentia) shes forgetting alot but still very pleasant and love her very much, but he acts like i'm the enemy and his 42 yr old brother lived with his dad and gambled all his money away we found out later and now he lives off of his 81 yr old mother doesnt work etc and we fight about his brther bevcauwe hes at out home everyday for 3 hours at a time 3 times a day so tired and sodepressed but pick mysef back up andtry to push forward so hard what can i do? we've been together 14 years and never got married efven though he asked 3 months after we goot togwther and i said yes but it has always been negative with dealing with his father and alzheiemrs we had 3 teens at the time and they got into aot of trouble with wrong gruops of freinds and drugs but at the age s of 24 25 and 25 they are much better now.if it wasnt for my sickness we wouldprobably be happy as we were before this ugliness reared its head but i was a supermom and superwife i did everything and now that i c ant its falling apart please help if there's a site to go to for free advice i'm totally disabled and miss my old life only 45 yrs old and every 2-3 years we,ve moved and i lost new freindships and in this state i know knowone thx teresa teri937@yahoo.com (wrote on chris's subscription because i want him to understand about mom and her phases etc. thax or please dont publish address or last name just email address is ok no names or address though please
