Can we get POA for my mother without her approval?
By definition a Durable Power of Attorney occurs when someone chooses to appoint a particular person to be able to act on their behalf in regard to financial matters. If you believe your mother is not acting responsibly in regard to money matters, you should respectfully discuss this with her. If you are unable to help her come to some way to budget and pay her bills, the only thing you can do is to petition a court to be appointed as her conservator to be empowered by the court to manage her financial affairs. If she is of sound mind and resists this action, it will be difficult to achieve.

