How do we get Dad to take over Mom's medications, as she can't do it correctly?
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Medication management is often an issue for those with early Alzheimer's. At that stage, they are usually struggling to maintain control and autonomy and spouse caregivers are confronted with this dilemma. Assuming responsibility for this task can be very challenging if the well spouse is in denial about his wife's losses or if he is reluctant to infringe on her self determination. Often this reluctance is related to the dynamics of their historical marital relationship. Before any changes occur, he needs more education assistance with his resistance. A caregiver support group {www.Alzheimer'sAssociation.org} can be beneficial.
Once he has a better understanding that her memory deficits coupled with other cognitive losses interfere with her ability to manage her medications and put her at great risk for mismanagement, he may be ready to assume this task. Firstly, he will need to secure the medication vials out of her sight; this will insure she will not overmedicate. Then he will need to pour them (with her if she is willing) into a medication box planner. Then he will need to remind her when to administer and nurture her control as much as feasible. If doing the latter is too problematic, it is recommended that either a professional (i.e. other family member, Geriatric Care Manager)help with this task. Often bringing in a third person who is objective and less emotionally involved can deflect a dementia patient's opposition or anger toward her spouse. It can also take the burden off of the well spouse and help maintain their marital relationship.
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