Your information shares about a "Good Death" What about when...

Your information shares about a "Good Death" What about when someone dies in their sleep, with no warning? How does that differ with your assessment of a "Good Death". There is no planning, no saying good-byes, no last I Love You, all you get is shock and loniness in an instant. How does that defer, and what do you do. My husband died of Sudden Death Sydrome. Thanks. This and the topic of Social Security for Widows is something that is rarely covered. Thanks again. Casey