Was heart valve surgery the only option?
First of all we are sorry to hear about the passing of your grandmother. Unfortunately it sounds like your grandmother developed advanced heart failure over the last year of her life. This occurs when the heart muscle weakens and causes many of the symptoms you described your grandmother had. These symptoms were probably caused by the leaky valve which lead to the weakened heart muscle. When the heart valve weakens currently the best treatment option is heart valve surgery. From what you describe it sounds like heart surgery was the best decision to try to help relieve your grandmother's symptoms. I have worked for many years in the hospital and unfortunately have seen some patients develop the same types of problems as your grandmother's after surgery. From what you describe, multi-system organ failure and her heart stopping several times it does not sound like your grandmother would have been able to recover. I know it must have been a very hard decision but it does sound like it was the best decision for your grandmother, recovery sounds very unlikely.
Only God knows who suppose to die or not.. But to answer your question do people get better after multiple organ failure.. i think they do to a certain point.. My brother has multiple organ failure.. he started out with double pnuemonia, kidney failure, had his heart valve replaced and has been in the hospital for over 6 months and a nursing home for 3 months... its been crazy.. just keep your faith and know that God makes no mistakes.
thanks for the replies
