Check out IHHS. In Home Health Services. You can look them up online. If your husband meets their standards of care, you would be his "Provider" and he would be your "Consumer." Basically, you would work for him. The process is pretty straight forward. They would send out someone to assess his level of needs and determine how many hours of care he qualifies for. After some paperwork, like an application and other info from you and him, the ball is rolling. I don't know what state you live in, but I do know that that determines the pay rate. (like any other state). Good Luck :) and I hope this is helpful.