My husband and I live in central NY and will be moving to the Richmond, VA area. His mother is in an assisted living home where we are presently living. We need help to find her an appropriate living situation in VA. Can you tell us how to start to find a place that is appropriate? I do not need to list all her ailments other than to say she is an 88 year-old woman with senile dementia and various other health problems. Her funds are limited and she has Medicare and Medicaid to pay her expenses. Where do I start and how do we do this?