How can I pass responsibility of an estate?
From all you’ve written, it sounds as if your part in your aunt’s affairs IS over—except for the unfortunate matter of getting the mail and notices, which likely stirs up some grief and angst and anger and other confused and confusing thoughts for you.
But first, doublecheck.
Any power you had as your aunt’s agent in the power of attorney died when your aunt did, so you no longer have any rights or responsibilities under that document.
It sounds suspicious that you might have seen a version of your aunt’s will that might have been the most recent plan for her wishes. With wills, the most recent document usually controls—and effectively revokes or negates previous wills.
If you think it’s worthwhile there are additional steps you might take to locate that will. If you have access to them be sure to search desk drawers, file cabinets, closets in a home and office, computer files, and safe-deposit boxes. As a second resort, check with the local probate court, where it might have been filed, even before she died. And finally, you might give one more try to locating the attorney who drafted the new will by contacting the state bar; even if he left town, he likely gave a forwarding address if he is still licensed in your state.
If those steps don’t turn up any new information, then rest assured you have done all you can do—and then some.
You are not liable for your aunt’s taxes or other bills. Return requests for payment directly to those who sent them, with a simple note informing them that you are not the executor or the responsible next of kin.
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