What are my options if I need to move but all the nursing homes in the new state have waiting lists?
You obviously care a great deal for your mother and have remained on top of the situation. Based on your comments, it does not sound as though your mother requires 24-hour care and she may be just as comfortable in an Assisted Living or Continuing Care Community or even at home with frequent professional support.
The home where she currently resides can give you a better idea of her daily needs, or you may wish to consult a Care Manager to discuss care and financial options.
As much as you want to have everything settled before you move, it is important that you make sure you know what your mother wants. As much as you love her, she may be comfortable remaining where she is for a period of time while the "right place" opens up. Be sure to involve her in the conversation and the decision.
