Should we spend down Dad's remaining assets for better care now, and hope it doesn't run out?
Your Dad can qualify for a VA pension. He should get the maximum of $1,644/month, which will more than cover his assisted living expenses. You need to contact an eldercare financial planner who understands how the VA pension program works. You should provide him with the best quality of care that he can afford. Depending on which state he lives in, a Medicaid program should be able to cover his care if and when he does use all of his resources.
