Wingit

Member since July 03, 2008
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Hi! I live with my 88 year old mom- in HER condo, with HER furniture, HER dishes, etc....I am sure that you can already tell what issues we have! I love her dearly, overall we have had a good relationship, but rocky at times.I am 54 with one grown son.

She is a tiny, frail little thing who is a complete perfectionist. She stays in control of herdeclininghealth etc by organizing and cleaning and cleaning and organizing. And when she is not feeling up to it, then I have to do it so she will feel in control. And of course I cannever do it right.Since I havea full time career and travel for it., I do get some breaksand she can care for herself.She is also extremely slow and wears hearing aids. but overall is in good condition for 88!

I joined Caring.com because so often I get overcome with guilt with my inability to please her. Reading everyone's input is extrememly helpful as well as the advise from Caring . com.

The Lord Jesus will help us!

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