'maintain marriage with multiple health issues' posted by maddox07 @ {post.created_at.to_s(:post_time)}

maddox07 — Tue, 24 Aug 2010 10:17:54 -0000

Your situation seems to be quite bad. Try to figure out what types of health problems your wife is suffering from. Try to tell her with love and you may also go to your doctor to find out the solution for this situation.

'maintain marriage with multiple health issues' posted by Wellspouse @ {post.created_at.to_s(:post_time)}

Wellspouse — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 02:29:31 -0000

Check out the Well Spouse Association, http://wellspouse.org which offers peer support, and is open only to husbands, wives or partners of persons with chronic illness or disability. You may find that the slogan "You are not alone" really is true.

'maintain marriage with multiple health issues' posted by At The Cross, @ {post.created_at.to_s(:post_time)}

At The Cross, — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 19:34:04 -0000

Pray & ask God to give you the right approach/ the right words and for God to touch her heart to recieve the advice . As a Believer Of Faith, A Christian we have to trust God in all things. Not doubting.. nothing is IMPOSSIBLE FOR GOD !

Blessings !

At The Cross,

'maintain marriage with multiple health issues' posted by LauraL @ {post.created_at.to_s(:post_time)}

LauraL — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 19:16:23 -0000

Hi,

Do you have a pastor who could make a difference? Maybe her doctor or some other very trusted friend or individual that she may listen to more closely than she would her spouse? (I know my kids will listen to another adult like they are the sage on the mountaintop than listen to me say the exact same thing!)

Perhaps find something you can both enjoy together. Going for a walk? Playing a game? Doing the little special things like leaving a message in a lunch or on a mirror? Little buttons that help close up the coat of your marriage around you both.

Let us know how things are going.

'maintain marriage with multiple health issues' posted by Missy @ {post.created_at.to_s(:post_time)}

Missy — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 18:54:54 -0000

Hello,

What a heartbreaking situation. What type of health issues is your wife suffering with? I know there will be lots of people who would love to offer you support and advice.

'maintain marriage with multiple health issues' posted by Anonymous @ {post.created_at.to_s(:post_time)}

Anonymous — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 18:43:04 -0000

The problem is that she won't listen to me, when I ask her to do some thing. She gets an idea in her head and will not let go of it, until she gets it done. She wants to spend money she doesn't have, and when I try to explain this to her, she says I am being cheap, and don't let her have anything.

'maintain marriage with multiple health issues' posted by lil babe @ {post.created_at.to_s(:post_time)}

lil babe — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 18:38:20 -0000

love and caring only goes so far after 14 yrs. what can we do now?