how to go on when there is the one thing you lived for is gone

I am so very sorry for your terrible loss.. I asked myself the same question over and over..How do I live without my mom, my best friend and the one person I saw everyday of my life.. I lost my Mom on Sept.23,2009..Since then my world is empty.. I know this is going to be a very hard journey for you.. I thought of all the reason I didnt want to live, now I think of all the reason I have to live..If you cant think of a reason right now, believe me one will come to you..Keep holding on.. I am always here if you need to talk.. Dawn

I'm so sorry for your loss, M. Please believe there is more for your life yet to come. (((hugs)))

It seems to me that you are being tested for something sooooo much bigger then you can imagine and this is going to be the fight of your life look deep down deep inside of your self you will find the strength you my not think you have it in you right now but time does heal and you will find that ray they call hope so take a deep breath hold your chin up and most of all stay strong

I am so sorry for your loss... it hurts... no one really knows I guess is how I felt too... Lost my only brother to ALS in Oct.07, my mother died of heart attack in Dec.26,07, my dad died when I was 9 yrs old... my neice only 7 days old died in april 09... It leaves this empty hole in your life and you do not know which way to turn,then it seems like this black cloud just keeps hanging on all around you, you do not know who ,what when or how to do anything anymore like you are lost out in this big world and no one really cares... but there are people who care and it will be from the places you least expect it ...the places I found it was not with the rest of the famiy I had , it was my friends and total strangers... Keep your spirit up and do not let yourself get depressed, go for walks , go to church , god has been the reason for me to go on.. Keep up those spirits and my heart goes out to you ... if you need someone to talk too let me know...There is a master plan for our lives ....

I just lost my husband to pancreatic cancer on Feb. 4, 2010. He was taken from me two months after his dianosis. I am a total basket case right now. I was blessed with a very caring and loving man and it is so hard to imagine life without him.

I am so afraid of losing our house and that hurts so much because he wanted it so deeply for me and I don't know how I am going to be able to make the payments on it, along with make all the other bills too. I think of all the things that go along with owning a house and just am at a loss.

Life seems so scary right now and all I can do is cry.

Oh Dear Tam..I am so deeply sorry for your terrible loss.. It seems you do have so many issues to deal with along with your grieving.. I wish I could provide all the answers to comfort you, but so you know..I am always here to "Talk and Vent too"

I lost my Mom on Sept 23,2009 after finding out less then a week she had brain tumors, so along with that shock, then lossing them so fast..Its so hard, like you I was scared, I cried and cried and went through some very difficult emotions..The best advice I can give, that helped me..Was finding this site and just keep talking..The people here are all wonderful, they understand what you're feeling and give great support..

Dawn thank you and know my deepest sympathies go out to you as well. Right now I just want to crawl in a hole and hide but I also know that he wouldn't want me to do that.

The one thing I am trying to take solace in is that there wasn't a day that went by without letting him know just how much I loved him and that his passing was peaceful. I told him, I loved him, kissed him on his forehead and then whispered in his ear that I always would, kissed him on his check and he took his last breath knowing just how much I loved him.