Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by klee @ 07:57 AM November 12, 2009

klee — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 07:57:16 -0000

Can someone please tell me the difference between dementia and alzheimers? Mom was diagnosed with dementia. She was in a nursering home. Sometimes she would get very mean and angry. At the end, she didnt know any of us. She thought that I was someone who worked there.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by Dani's Mom @ 04:58 AM November 08, 2009

Dani's Mom — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 04:58:32 -0000

Couldn't agree with you more. Caring for my 87 yr old mom with dementia has opened up my eyes to realize my husband and I will definitely seek alternative housing to include assisted living arrangements before our children have to be our caregivers.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by Kariann @ 10:55 AM August 26, 2009

Kariann — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 10:55:57 -0000

rreinhart, I sent along a hug and wondered if you have checked out this link:

What Is Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI)

http://www.caring.com/articles/cognitive-impairment?utm_medium=email&utm_source=suggests&utm_campaign=alz&utm_content=20090825

I understand your feelings. It is scary. How are you doing?

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by GALOWA @ 06:54 AM August 14, 2009

GALOWA — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 06:54:45 -0000

YES and NO.

my mother currently has AD, and she lives with me and my family. also, two of her three sisters died from it, so i guess it runs in the family.

i have to admit that i used to worry about it a lot, until i decided that the more i worry about it, the more likely it is to happen...

so i just stopped.

c.suzanneMcable2009

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by rreinhart @ 09:10 PM August 13, 2009

rreinhart — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 21:10:20 -0000

My mother was living in a Senior's Apartment complex and doing great. Then all of a sudden she passed out and they rushed her to the hospital. We lived 4 hours away. My dad died of lung cancer at age 57 so mom had taken care of herself for many years. They ran all kinds of tests on her and the doctor diagnosed her with Alzheimer's and told us she had a year to live. She was not aloud to go home and was put in a nursing home in a locked unit. She walked from her room to the dining room and back again and that was it. I tried to get them to move her to the other side where she could stay involved, but they didn't think she could handle it. Well that has been 6 years ago. I was finally able to arrange a room for her where we live 2 years ago and she is doing great. She attends all the activities and takes care of herself almost completely. But I am very worried that I too will have problems. I really think she just has dementia, but I forget things alot and have difficulty just remembering simple things. I can't always keep my thoughts straight and I have found myself forgeting how to spell words and my typing has become difficult. Maybe I am being hard on myself, but I just turned 55 and I am still young. Any thoughts?

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by Kariann @ 05:21 AM August 12, 2009

Kariann — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 05:21:54 -0000

Cathy, that is good advice! I do believe stress is a part of it. I bet lack of sleep contributes to memory loss. I believe lack of sleep MIGHT contribute to AD?

I can let it go until I have one of those big memory loss moments or get mixed up. I am enjoying the time I have and don't feel over the hill just yet. (I am in my early 60's.) Take care everyone and God bless you!

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by MamaCath @ 02:04 AM August 12, 2009

MamaCath — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 02:04:28 -0000

Yep. I know exactly what you're saying about our parents "Going Away." It IS hard.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by MamaCath @ 02:01 AM August 12, 2009

MamaCath — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 02:01:32 -0000

Stress does make you forgetful.Been there done that. Find a positive outlet for your stress. Aerobic workout. Yoga. Something that you really enjoy and MAKE the time for it. If you are worried about getting AD, talk to your doctor. Don't waste your precious time worrying about things that you can't do anything about. One time I heard a man say, "Don't worry about things. Worry is just a waste of time. But if you are concerned about things you do what you can do and then let it go because you've done everything you could do." That was many years ago. Seems wise advice to me and I've thought of it many times over the years.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by wilibeme55 @ 12:28 AM August 12, 2009

wilibeme55 — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 00:28:41 -0000

I worry about it a lot.I can't remember so much already.But I am told that it's the stress I am under. Mom is 86 and has lost her short term memory already. It is a sad thing to watch.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by JaniceElaine @ 12:18 AM August 12, 2009

JaniceElaine — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 00:18:58 -0000

Oh gosh yes I worry I will get Alzim's,.Especially since my mother's sister had it.Her other sister's died of cancer,heart problemns and a stroke. But Alzim's scares me more.What also bothers me is that my father's family all had Parkinsin's.I feel as tho I'm Jinxed...My mom was told at 54 she would most likely get alzim's ...she's 88 now and is at about the beginning of the third stage.I'm 55 and my mind is NOT like it use to be..I forget and that's when I DO get really scared.I took care of my father,he died in 2006 I take care of my mother and it's not easy watching them "GO Away" from you right before your eyes.....so many wonderful memories Fading away.....Scared very,I'm not ashamed to say it.....just hope and pray I do not.....to all others Hang in there...All who take care of there parents are a "GOD SEND"... HUGS and PRAYERS from JaniceElaine Olson

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by MamaCath @ 04:58 PM August 10, 2009

MamaCath — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 16:58:52 -0000

If my mother didn't have Alzheimer's she could live with me the rest of her life and that would be just fine. It's the Alzheimer's! I realize research is looking for answers. But I still feel like they aren't working fast enough. At the Alzheimer's symposium/whatever in Vienna, Austria in July they announced that Alzheimer's is a global epidemic. That speaks loudly. I'm trying to become an advocate for AD but I am so busy getting my house in order...I am a publicist part time...going to see Mom at least 3 times a week. If I had 48 hours in each of my days it would not be time enough, I'm sure. But as someone said, I think it was here, idle hands are the devil's workshop. Nope. I don't have time for idle hands. ;D

Must be about time for me to write another entry in my Alzheimer's blog. I haven't done that for a few weeks. (http://hummingbirddontflyaway.blogspot.com. I think that'll get anyone there who is interested.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by Kariann @ 05:28 AM August 10, 2009

Kariann — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 05:28:44 -0000

Cathy, I am happy that things seem to be working out for your Mom at the Nursing Home. You sound much less stressed out. Yes, husbands need attention, and I think your DH appreciates this. I think he knows this is less stressful and your Mother is getting better care!

I have decide to change my Journal title from "Alzheimer's Moments" to "Senior Moments" - not that all senior citizens would be as I am. Yesterday, I was going to the mall and walked out with two left feet shoes. Both were black. Now, I should have realized this as I was driving, but didn't realize it until I was walking in the store. My feet started hurting and I ended up buying a pair of shoes!

I am trying to learn more about MCI (mild cognitive impairment.) as I think this may be the direction I am heading. I will say one thing... being with my young Grandchildren really seem to help. Nothing like rocking a little one. I haven't made any mistakes with them, so that is good.

Cathy, may God bless your day and all others taking care of their parents. My Mom died of complications from Diabetes, and I took care of her for four years. It was so demanding doing everything while taking care of my own home and children. However, her mind was sharp. That does make a difference. I miss her so much.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by MamaCath @ 12:44 AM August 09, 2009

MamaCath — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 00:44:23 -0000

Hi. The reason your mother takes everything out on you is because you are there. You are the constant in her life and she trusts that constant enough to be herself. It's the Alzheimer's. Is it really less than a month since we moved Mom to a nursing home? I was beating myself up because I wasn't able to meet her needs. I was so careful what I talked about because I feared she would be over-the-top angry in a heartbeat. When my youngest brother said he couldn't let me stay with Mom any longer I knew he was right, but I still felt terrible guilt for placing her there when she wanted to stay in her own home and die in the house where she raised her children. And my husband (will soon be married 37 years) stayed at our house. He wouldn't move to Mom's for anything. And I stayed at Mom's from March 11 when Dad was admitted to the hospital and died a week later and came home July 15, the day we moved Mom.

Some of the things people said to me:

Your mother wouldn't want you to stop living your life to take care of her. She told you, when the time came put her in a nursing home, even though she knew she would fight with you about it.

Put your mother in a nursing home so you can be her daughter again and enjoy your time together instead of being the caretaker who gets all the abuse.

I have to admit that she has settled down pretty well. She says she wants to go home, but the staff says she only tells her children this. She is safe. I don't announce when I will be visiting so they don't know when to expect me. The place is always clean, always smells clean, the residents are clean and well cared for. They are kind to the residents, attentive, feed them well, answer our questions and concerns. And when I go to visit now she doesn't get angry with me any more. I just tell her the truth, "Mom, you have memory impairment. I stayed with you but you told me I had to go home because my place is with my husband. You can't stay alone because of the Alzheimer's. If they come up with the antidote tomorrow, we will get it for you and move you back where you belong. But for now you are safe here. We can take care of our families, work our jobs and not have to worry if you are safe." She accepts that.

Maybe it's time for you to think about placing your mother in a nursing home. Visit some facilities to check them out. I wouldn't call ahead because I wanted to see how the facilities REALLY operate. I didn't want to give them the opportunity to prepare for the visit. All you have to tell them is that you are looking while you don't have to make a decision so you know what's available because you don't want to have to make a snap decision when a crisis puts you over the top.

Is it hard to place your mother? You bet it is. But when you get on the other side of it, you will be able to cope with it and come to the realization that you've done the best by your mother that you can..

I hope the best for you. I know exactly what you're dealing with right now.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by SDJ @ 10:32 PM August 08, 2009

SDJ — Sat, 08 Aug 2009 22:32:52 -0000

I'm adopted and caring for my mom and I STILL concern myself with getting this condition. I have read ALL of the blogs and learned some info I was not aware of like you can have Alzheimers and Dementia. Mom does both (not remembering that she forgets and then sometimes she does remember that she forgot) but won't really admit it most of the time. Mom was diagnosed approx. 12 years ago she's now 84. I did not know what was going on but her memory was not the first thing I noticed it was her mood swings; then, this person who I knew to be very active began to make excuses for not going to different functions; graduations, family gathering, then CHURCH. Her excuse was that she is sick but NOTHING was wrong with her; this ALL transpired 6 mos to a year after her mom died. She and I cared for her mom who had CHF for 5 years in our home - at this time I was still living at home w/my mom. One year before her mom died I got married and moved out but just upstairs so I could continue to assist her with the care of her mother. Anyway, the Dementia progressed but my stepdad (who was a God send) was able to deal with her until the bottom fell out last year. In April my dad was diagnosed with lung cancer and started chemo by june we thought he was getting better then in early November of last year they had to stop the Chemo and run a battery of test and then we knew the worse for yet to come - the cancer had spread to his liver and brain. Dad was GREAT; she had talked to me a few months prior and began to prepare; we discussed mom and her effect on his health. She did not understand how ill he was and she has always been very needy - in respect to wanted people (only the persons she wants) around her BUT on her terms - she won't come to you but want you to come to her and just sit around doing nothing. As dad's health declined, he was hospitalized for a week; me being her only child and only relative in our state had to take a leave of absence from my job that I just started in Feb to stay w/her and care for her. She was very combative and disruptive (i.e., cussing and fussing, and fighting...) Dad was sent home to die and I and his 2 sisters cared for them but NO ONE wanted the night shift (and as we all know, that is the worse shift for any illness; dad's was on morphine and couldn't sleep; he was a skeleton and could not get up or turn by himself; mom walked ALL night and wanted so I could not sleep and by this time needed to return to work (plus remember, I have a husband and 2 teenages on the other side of town). So I would be up all night and go to work at 9AM the next morning, etc. As I was making a trip home the day before Thanksgiving, I got the call, your dad's gone - I had just pulled up in front of my house; I turned around and went back b/c mom was still sleeping (it's morning time - this is when she sleeps). I moved her info my home and then the fun REALLY started; she thinks I'm a teenager and she has to care for me of which she cannot do...I just don't understand this condition; she treat outsiders with such love and respect, she treats me like crap; this afternoon when she decided to get out of bed to have breakfast she left a sausage in her plate; she will not eat in the kitchen so I've set up a table and chair in the livingroom (go figure) she wanted to leave the sausage on the table; I said , I leave it for awhile then move it because it's too hot to leave it there long it will spoil. you would have thought I screamed at her or said something mean and hateful to her; she cursed me out; got upset. She makes me sooo angry b/c she does not do this to the doctors, RNs, homemaker, etc., just me. She is incontinence BUT won't change her depend when needed; takes it off but I can't get her to understand she has to put another one on and when I mention it she says "I don't need it, or I'll put it on later" She consistantly asked me what can she do FOR ME, I used to say "put on your underwear or something, now I say nothing, yesterday i told her whatever you want to do which again, made her angry. I'm just tired; if she wasn't so mean and didn't spew such venom I could handle it better. Sometimes I think she uses her condition to give me grief b/c she controls her negative outbursts when others are around. You just have to see her in character to understand. I wanted to send her to Adult day care BUT she will not leave the house she won't even sit in the kitchen or go to the porch; she just sleeps in her bed or on the couch; and when she does rise after 12N she consistanty walks and eats so I have to hide food, etc. she gained 20 lbs which for someone who is not active that is NOT good; but she tell the physical therapist that now comes that she exercises all the time. She is such a good actress that the doctors, etc believe what she tells them. It's amazing. I find myself saying to myself who the patient here? her or me! Thanks for having a site where i can just get it out. No one understands this but the people who actually have or are experiencing this. I would not wish this on my worse enemy.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by MamaCath @ 12:57 PM August 06, 2009

MamaCath — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 12:57:32 -0000

I have spent time worrying about being the next generation to have AD. My friend Maureen tells me my brain works differently from Mom's so I don't need to worry about it. I'm a writer. I read a lot, I write a lot. Well, but my mom could play any musical instrument she picked up. She could sew like you wouldn't believe. She built her kitchen. SHE did it. When there was something new to try, she did. She studied painting and was doing well when Dad said she couldn't paint any more. And since they haven't determined yet the causes of AD I don't know how my friend can know that I won't be diagnosed with AD someday.

What does all of this say to me? In the Bible doesn't it say to live each day and not worry about tomorrow? So, I'm not spending much time thinking about what might be down the road. I'm trying to focus on just today so I enjoy every moment I can. That doesn't mean that I don't plan ahead. I do that. But maybe it's time to just live for some of the moments, to live in the right now. AD teaches us that.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by Kale @ 09:09 AM August 06, 2009

Kale — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 09:09:29 -0000

I do worry about it, but I try not to think about it too much at this stage. I am 52 years old. My mother, who is 78, has had Alzheimer's for 5 years and I am her caregiver. My father's sister is in the last stages of Alzheimer's and my dad started showing severe signs of dementia in the last few months of his life. So it is on both sides of my family, which obviously concerns me, and my brother. But you just have to take life one day at a time, and for now, my mother is my main concern.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by Anonymous @ 07:40 AM August 06, 2009

Anonymous — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 07:40:44 -0000

I understand your concerns. I've only just let myself realize the reality of this horrific disease. My mother died from the complications of AD and then when I tried to find my Aunt to notify her of her sister's passing I got a letter telling me she also has the disease. My children are adopted from China. I don't want them to have to deal with my family legacy. However, it looks like they may have to if not for the miracle intervention of God. I do have another legacy from my Father's Word of Life. The Lord of All has the final say. He alone knows when or if this disease will take my life. If so, it is His will and it is His say if I have lived out my mission in His life. I love my Mother and I wish she and I had a different relationship but I believe I will see her again and that makes all the difference in the world. God bless All.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by jbcwoytach @ 04:13 PM July 17, 2009

jbcwoytach — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 16:13:18 -0000

MamaCath,

I know how difficult this is for you, we have been in your shoes. My mother in law always asks when she's going home. We try to redirect her by getting her interested in something of changing the subject. We've noticed lately that she doesn't ask about going home as much, she still has a hard time accepting I guess would be the best term but then her memory with the dementia and AD isn't what it would be if she didn't have those things. She will take spells and call us and say she doesn't belong her she's not a lunatic (her term) but we try to just reassure her and change the subject. Our biggest hurdle currently is that she wants her girdles. We have thrown them all out because of incontinence issues and cleanliness issues. She weighs less than my little 14 year old, she doesn't need a girdle. I found a pair of longer type underwear from a website called Whittmann Textiles and we are going to give those a try. She wears depends and having a girdlem, she doesn't stay clean and she can't get them down fast enough when she needs to go. My husband just tells her she doesn't need them because she has underwear and depends and then changes the subject. She doesn't make life easy, she never has but with the dementia and AD it makes things more challenging.

She didn't like the idea of eating in the dinning room but they put her at a table where all of the ladies were relatively new to the facility. They are all really nice ladies, two of them were school teachers so they love when my daughter goes to visit.

My husband spent many hours upset about the decision to place her here but it has been for the best. She's fallen 4 times that we know of and if she would of been in her home in PA. it's hard to tell what may of happened. She is across from the nurses station and they check on her quite often and it's made things a bit easier. It may take time for your mom to accept the situation but get the help of the facility where she is at. Those people know how to deal with the older people. The caregiver my mother in law has is a god send and I'm so thankful for her even though there are times my MIL treats her horribly.

Try to reassure and redirect and that was even some of the same things the local Alzeimer's Association folks were telling us. It does get easier but it will take time.

Best of luck to you and your family.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by MamaCath @ 03:39 PM July 17, 2009

MamaCath — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 15:39:07 -0000

Thanks for this post! I didn't know about MCI. Where we have placed Mom they asked us about interests so they can work with her. If it wasn't for the AD, my mother would be fine at home. She crochets. She feeds herself. She told them she wanted her meals in her room and they were going to do that. I said, "No, she needs to eat in the dining room. How else can she get to know the people and the place where she now lives if she eats in her room?" Immediately they arranged for her to have supper in the dining room.

My brother went in to hang two of her paintings (she is an artist) in her room. He went to the dining room to find her. She was eating. When she finished, she started going around the room to check out the elderly men there looking for Dad. Richard didn't know exactly what to do about it. I mean, she was walking up to them and turning their faces so she could find Dad. He asked what she was doing. She told him. Then finally said, "Oh, he's dead. He isn't here."

She says she doesn't want to be there. She doesn't understand why she can't live in her own house. When are we ready to leave and go home? In the courtyard, we sat at a table in the shade of the awning. She thought we were at my house. No, Mom. This is where you live now. I came to see you." I had a difficult time leaving. I have to find the way to visit a while and then say, "Mom, it's time for me to go home. I'll see you later."

The MCI thing...I wonder if that's Mom. I'm going to mention it to the caregivers at the home today.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by kittykat @ 01:37 PM July 17, 2009

kittykat — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 13:37:08 -0000

This reply is for Kariann, I think...but really for everyone who may need it.

I can so relate to what you all say about dementia and alzheimers. My Mom has dementia, but for all intents and purposes, it is diagnosed as MCI (mild cognitive impairment.) Why.this diagnosis?

Because, in the scheme of assisted living vs. memory care units of most assisted living facilities...the resident is put in memory care if there is any mention of dementia or alz. How do I know this?

I thought it best for my Mom to be in Memory Care, until it actually happened. Then I realized that she was not getting the care she needed; in terms of socializing with others. Most places are very lenient with their assisted living care unless the resident is disruptive, aggressive, or an eloper.

Eloper means wandering or leaving the facility. My Mom was none of these, so thank goodness I could get her a new diagnosis that read MCI and moved her to the "other side"...assisted living.

She has been there for 1 month. It has been a very difficult adjustment for me and her, as well as many of my family members.

My Mom has good days for the most part. I visit her as often as I can...and no sooner do I leave that she calls me and asks me to come and pick her up and take her home???? So, there you go.

Life is precious, that is what I have learned from this dreaded disease. My Mom is still very healthy physically, albeit, she broke her hip in March, but recovered amazingly well...she has a strong spirit, but her brain is deteriorating. It is so sad and so frustrating to see this happen to anyone, but especially your Mom or Dad? Right? I know.

What I know for sure is this.....she is safe, she is secure, she is happy for the most part....while in Assisted Living.

My Ah Ha Moment......This is hard work, this is stressful, but it too shall pass.

Focus on the positive, be patient, do nice things for your self everyday, because you deserve it.

Appreciate the caregivers at the facility, I do, they are "angels" sent to us to help us care for our parents. Bake lots of cookies, and eat them and share them. Compliment others on a job well done, we all need that so much.

Take care of yourself FIRST! Probably the hardest thing for me to do too.

Keep chatting and surround yourself with positive people always.

Sugar Mama

Corralitos, California

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by MamaCath @ 11:48 AM July 17, 2009

MamaCath — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 11:48:13 -0000

That could happen to anyone. You get wrapped up in what your seeing and are thinking about all of those things that you've been looking at and studying closely, pondering the possibilities that go along with the place. Thank goodness you were going back the next day!

Stress isn't a good thing for you, I think. It's not good for anyone! If you can stop worrying so much, that might help you. Stress can make AD leap, or so I've found with my mom. Think less about what's ahead and just live in the moment, if you can do these things.

When we all have a lot on our plates, THAT can make us be forgetful. Sometimes it's better to just take one day at a time and live it to the fullest! Time will take care of everything else.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by Kariann @ 07:20 AM July 17, 2009

Kariann — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 07:20:30 -0000

Hello ~ I have been on vacation the last 4 days but do apprecaite the posts made here. I would like to comment, probably tomorrow. I just wanted to mentioned that I checked in my tote and my camera at the museum and 6 hours later I walked right out of there and realize on the expressway that I had left my precious camera at the check-in. Luckily, we had planned on returning the next day. However, I was so upset I did this. How could I forget to pick-up such an important thing like that. My DH says, "This could happen to anyone." But I know me and this is wrong.

Some of the comments here have been heartbreaking; others quite positive. Thank you!

Kariann

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by kittykat @ 01:26 PM July 15, 2009

kittykat — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 13:26:37 -0000

In regards to worrying about getting Alzheimer's myself, because I take care of my Mother who is in the early stages....ABSOLUTELY NOT! No I am not in denial...I am in positive....DONT' WORRY BE HAPPY MODE!

My Mom is 89 years old and started the slippery slope at about 85...God Bless her....I am 56 and live life one day at a time. Taking care of my Mom, who took care of me and my 5 siblings, not to mention numerous other children in her life; (our home was one of the first day care homes in the area) and my our Mom took in relative's children when they were unable to do so themselves.

Our Mom is a saint and although it can be stressful at times to watch what this awful disease is doing to her, I choose to focus on the good things...each day...and continue to make each day an adventure!

SugarMama Kat Corralitos, California.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by MamaCath @ 07:48 PM July 14, 2009

MamaCath — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 19:48:16 -0000

Thanks. I was thinking about making sure there are plenty of pictures there. I will do that for sure now.

Do you worry about developing Alzheimer's yourself? posted by jbcwoytach @ 05:31 PM July 14, 2009

jbcwoytach — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 17:31:49 -0000

MamaCath,

I'm glad the Namenda is working for your mom. It's great that you've been able to spend time with your mom. I'm glad she understands that your doing it for her own good. It's difficult no matter what the situation is but I hope that she will understand in time you've done what you feel is in her best interest. Have you talked to the Local Alzeimer's Association? There is a Cleveland chapter and that is where we started and they were a wealth of information and they are a great support. We have not made it to any support group meetings but just the amount of information they shared was wonderful. They called on a regular basis to see how things were going until we decided on the Assisted Living Facility.

I continue to wish you well. It's a tough time for everyone. One thing that may help your mom is take pictures of her home and her family and friends and make a little album. I know we had a small wedding album made for each set of parents and we just recently found them for both parents and we put it in her apartment and the caregivers will sit down with her and ask questions about different photos and even the album. So, we are trying to label photo's and put them in her apartment so she can remember the good times. We haven't got all of them but there are a few and the caregivers and really good about asking about them. We just had pictures done of my 14 yr old daughter for father's day and we put some of them in the apartment and it gives the caregivers something to talk with her about. I continue to wish you and your family well.

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