Addiction support

Dealing with a loved one's addiction can add an additional layer of stress to an already complicated caregiving situation. How do you find support for yourself? Do you have a friend you confide in or perhaps you attend a group like Al-Anon?

Personally...

I am married 17 years and my husband and I have had so much fun traveling with the USN, and enjoying each other, but when his father died in 2003' he was so hurt, and upset with his father's caregiver(his older brother), he start using cocaine...

I can't care for my father, who is an alcoholic with multiple health issues, as much as I'd like. So I've tried to hire help through caregiver services. But then my dad gets drunk and passes out and the next morning when the caregiver arrives, the place...